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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

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FR: 2 minute # close... how to proceed?

wolfie

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Out with some friends last night, when as we're walking past the line of a club I spot a HB I think I recognise with some of her friends in line. Turns out I sat next to her during a class once (something like 4 months ago). Didnt recognise me at first.. so after I jogged her memory - "omg.. yeah.. I remember u.." -
we fluff for abit about school and then I ask her what she's up to tonight. She says she's going to this breakdancing thing at the club. I tell her my friends and me are hitting various places, how about if she and her friends meet up with us later. She offers #, and we exchange. (throughout this she's giggling to her friend going "I'm picking up" LOL)
Anyway, we didnt end up meeting.. but how to proceed from here with the digits?
My thoughts - when I # closed, the suggestion of getting together later on was framed as a group meeting with ppl who have something in common (same college), and so I feel it would be best if I called her to meet up with her friends and my friends in a group sometime (i.e if we were both heading out to clubs in the same area).
Additionally I had a mere 2 minutes of conversation with her, hardly enough time to impress any kind of value on her in which she'd want to meet up with me 1 on 1.
I'm going to maybe call her up in a week or 2 and see if she and her friends are out hitting nightspots at the same time I am with mine, and work on her and all of her friends (who were quite fine, from what I saw :D) if we can arrange to meet.

Thoughts, comments, suggestions anyone?

oh yeah -one of my friends who I was with at the time, (quite an attention ho) stood back and gave me a death stare when she realised what I was doing. Ragged on me all night for it. LOL.
 

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Call her now and ask her where she was last night, then bust her on not looking for you, and then say "Ok ok, I know you tried but obviously your not the best dectective ;), so let's meet up again <insert date in the next 3 days> at, <insert place here>. Go just with her, dont use the group, too many ****blocks.
 

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Actually I did sms her later during the night about getting together. Exchange went something like this -

me: hey u guys wanna meet up? my friends and i r lookin for another place to hit

her: i dont think so dude, we're still at xxxx

me: what's the scene like there? is there a cover charge?

no reply

Oh well. Since she seemed to freeze out at the end there, i thought I'd give it a bit of a rest for a week or so before calling her.
 

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Originally posted by wolfie
Actually I did sms her later during the night about getting together. Exchange went something like this -

me: hey u guys wanna meet up? my friends and i r lookin for another place to hit

her: i dont think so dude, we're still at xxxx

me: what's the scene like there? is there a cover charge?

no reply

Oh well. Since she seemed to freeze out at the end there, i thought I'd give it a bit of a rest for a week or so before calling her.
Should of called her instead of SMS, you lost it there bud. Move on is my best advice, and if she calls you getting together wouldnt hurt, but don't contact her.
 
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