"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: 2 ****blockers vs Me

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Oh wow.

Still fairly new to the game. :)

I never realized how Ugly Girls (UG's) felt so... Well insecure or jealous?

I don't know.

Listen to this, I was eye-ing this cute cute girl (along with 2 other girls [average at most], who I caught EC with.

I crossed her path, and another EC indicated High IL.

She paused her steps, I cross her path in a slant and said:

ME: Hello

HB: Hello..? (Has the "Can I help you?" face)

***I almost choked, but I knew I could handle this because she was already interested. I knew because of the EC***

ME: I just saw you and...

******2 girls tug on her arm saying, "Let's go, let's go.. etc.. etc..******

(I speak in a louder tone)

ME: EXCUSE ME

-They stop tugging-

ME: I won't take long. Hi i'm Mike, they call me Mickey.

HER: I'm "M"

-shakes hands-

ME: Your friends seem to be in such a hurry, you can just give me your #, I'll give you a call sometime.

-inputs her #-

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damn.. my conclusion is, I dont know.. Why the hell do those UG's.. Ugh..

Can't they just step aside for 1 second? They are obvious-****ingly-****blocking...

I couldnt let that stand in between me.

They seemed like such *******s. LOL. Just glad I got another #.

****blockers.. Lady-****blockers at that. :mad:

It's part of the approaching experience I guess LOL. :)

No harm; no foul. :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You went after the target immediately and that's where you went wrong.

you should have struck up a convo with the Ugs first, and ignored your target.

Once they don't see you as a threat, then you could have talked to the other one.

By what you said, it seems you were a bit too forceful and "in her face".. she probably felt uncomfortable.

Don't ever say to a girl "I just saw you and......"

you're basing your entire approach on her appearance and letting her know this. Bad idea.
 
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Lesson learned. Thanks. :)

Just figured.. Wouldnt the UG's feel wierd? Why would I wanna talk to them? :confused:
 
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You are overlooking the most important lesson here:

You were met with slight social pressure (the target's friends pulling her away, in this case) and you PLOWED right through and got her number. Most suckers would bow out under this social pressure... good job!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by locarius
You are overlooking the most important lesson here:

You were met with slight social pressure (the target's friends pulling her away, in this case) and you PLOWED right through and got her number. Most suckers would bow out under this social pressure... good job!
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Amen to that brother!
 
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Originally posted by locarius
You are overlooking the most important lesson here:

You were met with slight social pressure (the target's friends pulling her away, in this case) and you PLOWED right through and got her number. Most suckers would bow out under this social pressure... good job!
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I gotta give props to this, as well... It takes real balls to just shut them down and go for it.
 
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Too bad the number is a fake:rolleyes:
 
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