"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FR: 2 ****blockers vs Me

lets_do_this

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Oh wow.

Still fairly new to the game. :)

I never realized how Ugly Girls (UG's) felt so... Well insecure or jealous?

I don't know.

Listen to this, I was eye-ing this cute cute girl (along with 2 other girls [average at most], who I caught EC with.

I crossed her path, and another EC indicated High IL.

She paused her steps, I cross her path in a slant and said:

ME: Hello

HB: Hello..? (Has the "Can I help you?" face)

***I almost choked, but I knew I could handle this because she was already interested. I knew because of the EC***

ME: I just saw you and...

******2 girls tug on her arm saying, "Let's go, let's go.. etc.. etc..******

(I speak in a louder tone)

ME: EXCUSE ME

-They stop tugging-

ME: I won't take long. Hi i'm Mike, they call me Mickey.

HER: I'm "M"

-shakes hands-

ME: Your friends seem to be in such a hurry, you can just give me your #, I'll give you a call sometime.

-inputs her #-

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damn.. my conclusion is, I dont know.. Why the hell do those UG's.. Ugh..

Can't they just step aside for 1 second? They are obvious-****ingly-****blocking...

I couldnt let that stand in between me.

They seemed like such *******s. LOL. Just glad I got another #.

****blockers.. Lady-****blockers at that. :mad:

It's part of the approaching experience I guess LOL. :)

No harm; no foul. :D
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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You went after the target immediately and that's where you went wrong.

you should have struck up a convo with the Ugs first, and ignored your target.

Once they don't see you as a threat, then you could have talked to the other one.

By what you said, it seems you were a bit too forceful and "in her face".. she probably felt uncomfortable.

Don't ever say to a girl "I just saw you and......"

you're basing your entire approach on her appearance and letting her know this. Bad idea.
 

lets_do_this

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Lesson learned. Thanks. :)

Just figured.. Wouldnt the UG's feel wierd? Why would I wanna talk to them? :confused:
 

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You are overlooking the most important lesson here:

You were met with slight social pressure (the target's friends pulling her away, in this case) and you PLOWED right through and got her number. Most suckers would bow out under this social pressure... good job!
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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SAYNO

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Originally posted by locarius
You are overlooking the most important lesson here:

You were met with slight social pressure (the target's friends pulling her away, in this case) and you PLOWED right through and got her number. Most suckers would bow out under this social pressure... good job!


Amen to that brother!
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Originally posted by locarius
You are overlooking the most important lesson here:

You were met with slight social pressure (the target's friends pulling her away, in this case) and you PLOWED right through and got her number. Most suckers would bow out under this social pressure... good job!
I gotta give props to this, as well... It takes real balls to just shut them down and go for it.
 

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Too bad the number is a fake:rolleyes:
 
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