"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR: 2 ****blockers vs Me

lets_do_this

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Oh wow.

Still fairly new to the game. :)

I never realized how Ugly Girls (UG's) felt so... Well insecure or jealous?

I don't know.

Listen to this, I was eye-ing this cute cute girl (along with 2 other girls [average at most], who I caught EC with.

I crossed her path, and another EC indicated High IL.

She paused her steps, I cross her path in a slant and said:

ME: Hello

HB: Hello..? (Has the "Can I help you?" face)

***I almost choked, but I knew I could handle this because she was already interested. I knew because of the EC***

ME: I just saw you and...

******2 girls tug on her arm saying, "Let's go, let's go.. etc.. etc..******

(I speak in a louder tone)

ME: EXCUSE ME

-They stop tugging-

ME: I won't take long. Hi i'm Mike, they call me Mickey.

HER: I'm "M"

-shakes hands-

ME: Your friends seem to be in such a hurry, you can just give me your #, I'll give you a call sometime.

-inputs her #-

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damn.. my conclusion is, I dont know.. Why the hell do those UG's.. Ugh..

Can't they just step aside for 1 second? They are obvious-****ingly-****blocking...

I couldnt let that stand in between me.

They seemed like such *******s. LOL. Just glad I got another #.

****blockers.. Lady-****blockers at that. :mad:

It's part of the approaching experience I guess LOL. :)

No harm; no foul. :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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You went after the target immediately and that's where you went wrong.

you should have struck up a convo with the Ugs first, and ignored your target.

Once they don't see you as a threat, then you could have talked to the other one.

By what you said, it seems you were a bit too forceful and "in her face".. she probably felt uncomfortable.

Don't ever say to a girl "I just saw you and......"

you're basing your entire approach on her appearance and letting her know this. Bad idea.
 

lets_do_this

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Lesson learned. Thanks. :)

Just figured.. Wouldnt the UG's feel wierd? Why would I wanna talk to them? :confused:
 

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You are overlooking the most important lesson here:

You were met with slight social pressure (the target's friends pulling her away, in this case) and you PLOWED right through and got her number. Most suckers would bow out under this social pressure... good job!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by locarius
You are overlooking the most important lesson here:

You were met with slight social pressure (the target's friends pulling her away, in this case) and you PLOWED right through and got her number. Most suckers would bow out under this social pressure... good job!


Amen to that brother!
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Originally posted by locarius
You are overlooking the most important lesson here:

You were met with slight social pressure (the target's friends pulling her away, in this case) and you PLOWED right through and got her number. Most suckers would bow out under this social pressure... good job!
I gotta give props to this, as well... It takes real balls to just shut them down and go for it.
 

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Too bad the number is a fake:rolleyes:
 
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