"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR: 1st date LR...why why why...

BackInTheGame78

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Woman I have been chatting with for the past week and a half invites me over for dinner tonight...we eat and then within an hour after I am fvcking her senseless...

She is hot but within the first 2 hours I find out she smokes...she pays her bills late and has sh!t shut off routinely apparently...her last BF dumped her because she was too clingy.

Lmao...why me??

Will keep this one as a fvck buddy only. Typing this as she is outside smoking...OLD really is garbage even tho the women can be good looking. Worst part is she is a nurse, like where the hell is the money going??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lol.. P&D stuff, dont took it seriously, it seems like youre doing just fine.. You wont be investing in her or emotionally involved, enjoy the ride of life :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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