"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Found the perfect one, and blew it

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We all have this one "type" that we want so bad. I mean, I'll bone all kinds of chics, but there is this "one"..this type of girl, looks and all, that I'd give a kidney to have. Oddly enough, I found one that fit the bill perfectly. The physical features, clothes, everything. We were in line at a restaurant in a food court of a mall. She was behind me and standing REAL close. I noticed she kept eyeing me..checking me out. Maybe was just curious because she is probably not from around here (lots of Asian tourists, and she is Japanese). I ordered and was waiting for my food, she ordered and came over and stood right next to me again..I mean RIGHT next to me..about 10-12 inches away...and there was plenty of room to stand..but she stood next to me. The staff was short on help so the orders were taking awhile and people were getting mad...instead of doing the same, since i felt bad for them working so hard, I turned to her and made a comment about how bad I felt for those kids working..but I said it in a nice way..just to break the ice..She got nervous and smiled and laughed...and then I blew it..I turned back around and didn't say anything..that's it..got my food and went and sat down to eat...like a big puss. She could have been an evil b!tch, I don't know, but she had that perfect look I have been searching for. So, how would you guys have taken it further with someone that seemed so shy?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If she's Japanese as in "from Japan" not just bloodline, then her standing that close to you had nothing to do with any interest. I have been to Japan numerous times and it's just the way it is. Personal space isn't the same thing to them as it is to us, possibly due at least partially to the fact that urban areas are so densely packed with people. If you need any evidence of this, just look at Japanese steakhouses, where you and seven or more people that you don't know all sit down at one table. So don't assume that she was into you and you blew it just because she was standing close to you. If she didn't say anything back, odds are she wasn't at all interested anyway.

You probably shold have done something more anyway.
 
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I found 2 perfect ones who i rate 10. Thats too much for me so i blew it. Im dating 9s and its all fine. Just 1 point doqn but such big difference. I just cant have my 10, its ****in too much too perfect. 9 is almost perfect, really not big difference but i get em easly and with 10s i always **** up.
 
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MightyMate said:
Sometimes You just know it. Or shes so sexy looking and is rich .... thats she perfect whatever she says and acts
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This is the road straight to straight to AFC'ville, no ifs and or buts about it. BTW, there is no such thing as a 10, the only place there are 10's is in the infamous AFC'ville.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's lucky you blew it. Now all I have to do is find that perfect one whom you failed to secure and make her mine, all mine. Only maybe a hundred million or so to work my way through, but I will singlemindedly pursue just her. I've never met her but I can picture her in my mind from your description.
 
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This OP is nothing but a troll who's read posts on one-itis before and now he's trying to get a reaction, and he did....because Rollo T posted an entire thread. For one, Rollo, you're too respected on this board to reply to trolls.

Then again, some might call me a troll for calling out the trolls...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bt i dont think calling a girl 10 or having dreams is beeing a troll. I think You guys got lame and lost seekign for trools all the time.
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MM how old are you anyway? What do you do? From the way you speak, your grammer, style, you don't act like your over 25. So please enlighten us troll hunters to your world.
 
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Haha 10 in the mirror every day. That **** has me rollin in my seat. Anyways, there be hunnies that we always got desires for that we don't end up with. PUArtistry and DJing is about being in the field, sarging with courage and confidence and a so suave attitude.
 
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MM how old are you anyway? What do you do? From the way you speak, your grammer, style, you don't act like your over 25. So please enlighten us troll hunters to your world.
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Sure mate im a trolll. Have a nice wanking night. I just had ******* from a girl who would be at least 10 in Your scale.
Fuqn moron. Id ban ya.
 
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speedo_meme said:
For one, Rollo, you're too respected on this board to reply to trolls.
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Point taken.

MIGHTYMATE, consider yourself warned.

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