"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Found out that chick I went on a date with, got a bf since 2010

DiegoSantori

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Today I logged on to Facebook and the first photo that I saw was this chick I went on a date with a couple months ago.

The title of the pic was "5 years already" and you could see her and some other dude on a festival. They were not kissing or anything, but c'mon, "5 years already" and the pic only shows him & her standing side by side. That's pretty obvious.

Back then, when we went on that date, we were just kissing, but I consider that cheating if she's in a relationship.

What should I do now? Tell him? Or just do nothing and let them have their fun while I have my fun with other ladies?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fitters

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You are joking right ?

1) What will telling him do for you ...nice guy ?
2) Next time when a girl throws her box at you ...FCVK HER
3) Try to reconnect and FCVK HER for the slut she is.
 

pyros

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it seems you have nothing else better to do than to stalk to a girl you WENT ON A DATE WITH, several months ago.

Do nothing man...

¬L¬'
 

Lozboss

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I'd personally tell him.

There's far too many people in this community willing to be some bodies relationship wreckers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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