"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Found out that chick I went on a date with, got a bf since 2010

DiegoSantori

DiegoSantori

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Today I logged on to Facebook and the first photo that I saw was this chick I went on a date with a couple months ago.

The title of the pic was "5 years already" and you could see her and some other dude on a festival. They were not kissing or anything, but c'mon, "5 years already" and the pic only shows him & her standing side by side. That's pretty obvious.

Back then, when we went on that date, we were just kissing, but I consider that cheating if she's in a relationship.

What should I do now? Tell him? Or just do nothing and let them have their fun while I have my fun with other ladies?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fitters

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You are joking right ?

1) What will telling him do for you ...nice guy ?
2) Next time when a girl throws her box at you ...FCVK HER
3) Try to reconnect and FCVK HER for the slut she is.
 
pyros

pyros

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it seems you have nothing else better to do than to stalk to a girl you WENT ON A DATE WITH, several months ago.

Do nothing man...

¬L¬'
 
Lozboss

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I'd personally tell him.

There's far too many people in this community willing to be some bodies relationship wreckers.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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