"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This girl that i have been talking \with broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years a few months ago.. since hten, we have been talking and hookingup, and she wants to date officially, but i refuse. I feel that she wants to get back at her ex, and/or jus wants a boyfriend.

anyway, she is stupid enough to give me a hint at her password and i figured it out. I read her messages (low i know) and someone asked her if she was planning on gettin back together with him. She replied with somethin like "As of right NOW, we are just friends."

she still texts him, but claims that he always texts her and she is just humoring him, but is always short with him.

how can i confront her wihtout telling her i got her password, that or should i not say anything at all
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your gut instinct is always right.

Just use her for sex as long as you can.

This is not the type of woman you give your heart to and start a relationship with.

Also don't confront her at all about it unless she keeps pressing the officially dating thing with you and it seems like she'll end it if you two don't date.

Make her guilty if you can and then exit stage left.
 
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Confront her with what?

News flash: you're not her fvcking boyfriend!

Leave her private sh!t alone.
 
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I was in this (almost) exact situation a couple months ago. This chick is trouble, as the bond that her and her ex-boyfriend had is not completely severed. There is still a connection there, no matter how much she denies it.

What you read through her messages are the blatant, plain and undistorted truth because they (as far as she knew) were completely away from your eyes. I personally would cut contact.
 
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requested said:
This girl that i have been talking \with broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years a few months ago.. since hten, we have been talking and hookingup, and she wants to date officially, but i refuse. I feel that she wants to get back at her ex, and/or jus wants a boyfriend.

anyway, she is stupid enough to give me a hint at her password and i figured it out. I read her messages (low i know) and someone asked her if she was planning on gettin back together with him. She replied with somethin like "As of right NOW, we are just friends."

she still texts him, but claims that he always texts her and she is just humoring him, but is always short with him.

how can i confront her wihtout telling her i got her password, that or should i not say anything at all
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In some cases it is against the law to read her e-mail like that. I think you should end it with her on the account; you are not ready to date.

Work on yourself a little more. Get to the point where you are not checking your almost GF's E-Mail than begin dating again.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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