Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Found out GF been cheating on me but she doesnt know.

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Think my GF has been cheating on me but not 100% sure but know she has been seeing someone behind my back but dont know how far she got. Cant believe her really this has shocked me a bit most admit.

Have booked a holiday with in June with her and she owes money for it still. Wats the best course of action cause thinking about bringing it up tomorrow.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, first you have to ask, did you guys discuss being exclusive or not? If not, then it doesn't matter.

If you did and you both agreed to it, cancel the trip, get your money, and go **** other chicks.
 
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AsianPlayboy said:
Well, first you have to ask, did you guys discuss being exclusive or not? If not, then it doesn't matter.

If you did and you both agreed to it, cancel the trip, get your money, and go **** other chicks.
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Yeh we were exclusive just cant believe she has been so cold the way she has lied damn. Problem cant cancel trip and she still owes me money and want it back lol, if break fear I wont get it!.
 
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GET MONEY BACK FIRST.

Then break up and deal with your cheating. :)
 
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If you are really sure she is cheating then u cannot seriously think of going on the trip with her. No matter what you do keep your self respect. Do not beg or loose your temper just walk away and kill all contact. After u get your money ofcourse
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Before you drop her ass like Cosby's kids in the pool, be damned sure you do every-fvckin-thing you can to make sure the next guy doesn't have anything left sexually to do to her. Go ass to mouth, cvm on her face (especially her eyes), go from ass to pvssy ( my personal favorite and gives 'em the added benefit of a hellacious yeast infection :p ).

Point is make it memorable then take all of her money and don't look back.
 
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redd said:
Think my GF has been cheating on me but not 100% sure but know she has been seeing someone behind my back but dont know how far she got. Cant believe her really this has shocked me a bit most admit.

Have booked a holiday with in June with her and she owes money for it still. Wats the best course of action cause thinking about bringing it up tomorrow.
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The best course of action is to make sure she PAYS first! And make sure she pays as fast as possible.

AFTER that...then follow other steps as necessary.
 
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1) Always plan your moves before making them.
2) Be ready to write off the money as a loss. Getting your money back is only a bonus.
3) Collect any 5hit of yours from her place before ditching her
4) Feel free to start dating other women.
5) Ditch her when you have as many loose ends tied up as possible
6) Either go on the trip alone, or cancel it depending on who has the tickets. If you can't cancel but have the tickets, take a good friend with you.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
Go ass to mouth, cvm on her face (especially her eyes), go from ass to pvssy ( my personal favorite and gives 'em the added benefit of a hellacious yeast infection :p ).

Point is make it memorable then take all of her money and don't look back.
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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implant aid's or some sort of sexual disease from a monkey to her, then the cheating will be hilarious! then when she comes upfront about it she'll wonder why you laugh.
 
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wait till you get the money out of her, and then tell her you caught "herpies" somehow, then dump her

or

keep f-in her (free ass) and start hooking up with other women....
 
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KarmaSutra said:
Before you drop her ass like Cosby's kids in the pool, be damned sure you do every-fvckin-thing you can to make sure the next guy doesn't have anything left sexually to do to her. Go ass to mouth, cvm on her face (especially her eyes), go from ass to pvssy ( my personal favorite and gives 'em the added benefit of a hellacious yeast infection :p ).

Point is make it memorable then take all of her money and don't look back.
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that **** would be awesome.
 
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That would be f*cked up. Just try to get the money. Bail.

Make sure she's actually cheating though. People do say sh*t. Just bring up how you think its f*cked up how people cheat. Judge her reaction.
 
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