"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Found out GF been cheating on me but she doesnt know.

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Think my GF has been cheating on me but not 100% sure but know she has been seeing someone behind my back but dont know how far she got. Cant believe her really this has shocked me a bit most admit.

Have booked a holiday with in June with her and she owes money for it still. Wats the best course of action cause thinking about bringing it up tomorrow.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well, first you have to ask, did you guys discuss being exclusive or not? If not, then it doesn't matter.

If you did and you both agreed to it, cancel the trip, get your money, and go **** other chicks.
 

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AsianPlayboy said:
Well, first you have to ask, did you guys discuss being exclusive or not? If not, then it doesn't matter.

If you did and you both agreed to it, cancel the trip, get your money, and go **** other chicks.

Yeh we were exclusive just cant believe she has been so cold the way she has lied damn. Problem cant cancel trip and she still owes me money and want it back lol, if break fear I wont get it!.
 

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GET MONEY BACK FIRST.

Then break up and deal with your cheating. :)
 

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If you are really sure she is cheating then u cannot seriously think of going on the trip with her. No matter what you do keep your self respect. Do not beg or loose your temper just walk away and kill all contact. After u get your money ofcourse
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Before you drop her ass like Cosby's kids in the pool, be damned sure you do every-fvckin-thing you can to make sure the next guy doesn't have anything left sexually to do to her. Go ass to mouth, cvm on her face (especially her eyes), go from ass to pvssy ( my personal favorite and gives 'em the added benefit of a hellacious yeast infection :p ).

Point is make it memorable then take all of her money and don't look back.
 

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redd said:
Think my GF has been cheating on me but not 100% sure but know she has been seeing someone behind my back but dont know how far she got. Cant believe her really this has shocked me a bit most admit.

Have booked a holiday with in June with her and she owes money for it still. Wats the best course of action cause thinking about bringing it up tomorrow.
The best course of action is to make sure she PAYS first! And make sure she pays as fast as possible.

AFTER that...then follow other steps as necessary.
 

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1) Always plan your moves before making them.
2) Be ready to write off the money as a loss. Getting your money back is only a bonus.
3) Collect any 5hit of yours from her place before ditching her
4) Feel free to start dating other women.
5) Ditch her when you have as many loose ends tied up as possible
6) Either go on the trip alone, or cancel it depending on who has the tickets. If you can't cancel but have the tickets, take a good friend with you.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Go ass to mouth, cvm on her face (especially her eyes), go from ass to pvssy ( my personal favorite and gives 'em the added benefit of a hellacious yeast infection :p ).

Point is make it memorable then take all of her money and don't look back.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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implant aid's or some sort of sexual disease from a monkey to her, then the cheating will be hilarious! then when she comes upfront about it she'll wonder why you laugh.
 

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wait till you get the money out of her, and then tell her you caught "herpies" somehow, then dump her

or

keep f-in her (free ass) and start hooking up with other women....
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Before you drop her ass like Cosby's kids in the pool, be damned sure you do every-fvckin-thing you can to make sure the next guy doesn't have anything left sexually to do to her. Go ass to mouth, cvm on her face (especially her eyes), go from ass to pvssy ( my personal favorite and gives 'em the added benefit of a hellacious yeast infection :p ).

Point is make it memorable then take all of her money and don't look back.

that **** would be awesome.
 

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That would be f*cked up. Just try to get the money. Bail.

Make sure she's actually cheating though. People do say sh*t. Just bring up how you think its f*cked up how people cheat. Judge her reaction.
 
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