Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I actually like him but I feel like he’s too successful

its guite common now 22 old girls (my age) date 45 old guys for his "success"
Of course success in this concept means money

I even have one girl friend age 30 that went on a date with 50 hoping to bite a bit of his success lmao unfortunately (or fortunately) he has bad teeth and mouth smell and it didnt work out for her.

Women should be ashamed going all in regarless 20yr+ age for money thing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Asasione

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its guite common now 22 old girls (my age) date 45 old guys for his "success"
Of course success in this concept means money

I even have one girl friend age 30 that went on a date with 50 hoping to bite a bit of his success lmao unfortunately (or fortunately) he has bad teeth and mouth smell and it didnt work out for her.

Women should be ashamed going all in regarless 20yr+ age for money thing.
How is this even related to guru? You're very mannerless posting such a provocative title only to then shame older successful guys for going after what they want.
 

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How is this even related to guru? You're very mannerless posting such a provocative title only to then shame older successful guys for going after what they want.
Thats compliment to him actually. Im not shaming older men, i shame women for how much preference they assign to money
 

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Thats compliment to him actually. Im not shaming older men, i shame women for how much preference they assign to money
That's could be said about anyone actually when it comes to money. But yeah women prefer successful people, being older or the similar in age makes no difference. They want the full package, looks, money, status and game.
 

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That's could be said about anyone actually when it comes to money. But yeah women prefer successful people, being older or the similar in age makes no difference. They want the full package, looks, money, status and game.
Exactly. All want money, but men want to make money on their own, women want to marry a rich guy regardless his age. And they are not ashamed to do so.

Did you ever see a couple of 20 year old man and 43 year old female (with a lot of "success" on her account)? very rare. althrough very common when men are 40+ and women 20.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well if he's smart enough to keep her as a plate then go Guru. Honestly a successful older man isn't going to be taken in by a gold digging ho.
 
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