"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Found Guru's plate

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I actually like him but I feel like he’s too successful

its guite common now 22 old girls (my age) date 45 old guys for his "success"
Of course success in this concept means money

I even have one girl friend age 30 that went on a date with 50 hoping to bite a bit of his success lmao unfortunately (or fortunately) he has bad teeth and mouth smell and it didnt work out for her.

Women should be ashamed going all in regarless 20yr+ age for money thing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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its guite common now 22 old girls (my age) date 45 old guys for his "success"
Of course success in this concept means money

I even have one girl friend age 30 that went on a date with 50 hoping to bite a bit of his success lmao unfortunately (or fortunately) he has bad teeth and mouth smell and it didnt work out for her.

Women should be ashamed going all in regarless 20yr+ age for money thing.
How is this even related to guru? You're very mannerless posting such a provocative title only to then shame older successful guys for going after what they want.
 

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How is this even related to guru? You're very mannerless posting such a provocative title only to then shame older successful guys for going after what they want.
Thats compliment to him actually. Im not shaming older men, i shame women for how much preference they assign to money
 

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Thats compliment to him actually. Im not shaming older men, i shame women for how much preference they assign to money
That's could be said about anyone actually when it comes to money. But yeah women prefer successful people, being older or the similar in age makes no difference. They want the full package, looks, money, status and game.
 

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That's could be said about anyone actually when it comes to money. But yeah women prefer successful people, being older or the similar in age makes no difference. They want the full package, looks, money, status and game.
Exactly. All want money, but men want to make money on their own, women want to marry a rich guy regardless his age. And they are not ashamed to do so.

Did you ever see a couple of 20 year old man and 43 year old female (with a lot of "success" on her account)? very rare. althrough very common when men are 40+ and women 20.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well if he's smart enough to keep her as a plate then go Guru. Honestly a successful older man isn't going to be taken in by a gold digging ho.
 
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