"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Found a website where all the keys to the vip can be viewed

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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good find. I want to get all the Mystery VH1's show at some point.
 

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lol @ guy who looks like professor snape

The black guy from ep 2 was the best.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Here:
http://youtube.com/profile_videos?user=TigerAFC2PUA&p=r

In my opinion some of these guys are better pua's than mystery. My favorite being the black guy from ep 2. Maybe may not be the most effective pua, but he seems to be having the most fun out of all the guys on that show. He seems to confirm my philosophy that going to the club should feel more like going to the playground than participating in an athletic competition (at the college or professional level). Mystery does look natural when he's gaming, but you can tell that his game is very technical.
 

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Ive watched the first 3 episodes of mystery. I dont like this show too much as an educational show. Its entertaining but I dont really see much value when it comes to applying it to my own life. For one, I dont have the anxiety problems that all of them have and number two I dont really agree with dressing up like a homo.

Keys to the VIP I find more useful because as the above poster said its more natural.
 

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That Vida guy amused me:

"This is my domain. The gym. Let's go hit the weights..."

Cut to camera shot of Vida's skinny body and chicken legs. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's interesting though that they get numbers in the first challenge by using lots of compliments, and no neghitting, c+f or other techniques. They just go for what they want and get it.
 

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they are all good looking naturals. Except for that one guy. I can't remember his name, but he was a sociapath living on his moms couch. He was average looking, but he had some serious game by making girls uncomfortable, yet attracted.
 
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