"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Found a website where all the keys to the vip can be viewed

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Ricky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2002
Messages
4,140
Reaction score
899
Age
52
good find. I want to get all the Mystery VH1's show at some point.
 

spesmilitis

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 3, 2006
Messages
1,490
Reaction score
6
lol @ guy who looks like professor snape

The black guy from ep 2 was the best.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

spesmilitis

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 3, 2006
Messages
1,490
Reaction score
6
Here:
http://youtube.com/profile_videos?user=TigerAFC2PUA&p=r

In my opinion some of these guys are better pua's than mystery. My favorite being the black guy from ep 2. Maybe may not be the most effective pua, but he seems to be having the most fun out of all the guys on that show. He seems to confirm my philosophy that going to the club should feel more like going to the playground than participating in an athletic competition (at the college or professional level). Mystery does look natural when he's gaming, but you can tell that his game is very technical.
 

Skel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 5, 2003
Messages
1,721
Reaction score
10
Ive watched the first 3 episodes of mystery. I dont like this show too much as an educational show. Its entertaining but I dont really see much value when it comes to applying it to my own life. For one, I dont have the anxiety problems that all of them have and number two I dont really agree with dressing up like a homo.

Keys to the VIP I find more useful because as the above poster said its more natural.
 

Jariel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2004
Messages
4,413
Reaction score
297
Location
UK
That Vida guy amused me:

"This is my domain. The gym. Let's go hit the weights..."

Cut to camera shot of Vida's skinny body and chicken legs. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Jariel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2004
Messages
4,413
Reaction score
297
Location
UK
It's interesting though that they get numbers in the first challenge by using lots of compliments, and no neghitting, c+f or other techniques. They just go for what they want and get it.
 

ChrizZ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2006
Messages
2,028
Reaction score
27
they are all good looking naturals. Except for that one guy. I can't remember his name, but he was a sociapath living on his moms couch. He was average looking, but he had some serious game by making girls uncomfortable, yet attracted.
 
Top