"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Forty0z's Fitness/Food Journal

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Friday 11/21

Breakfast - Eggs w/ salsa and cheese, and a hotdog
Lunch - Chef's Salad w/ Italian Dressing and a slim-jim.
After work - Not much, some peanuts I think
Dinner - Some tomatoes and cucumber, a few strips of bacon, and a pig piece of pork
Night - A small plate of cheese, a piece of celery with cream cheese, and a piece of celery w/ peanut butter

Exercise - 30 minutes jogging/walking on the treadmill
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Saturday 11/22

Breakfast - Omelette with 2 hotdogs, cheese and salsa
Mid-morning - Snacked on peanuts while watching DVD's
Lunch - 10 Buffalo wings and a side salad w/ Italian dressing

I went to stay the night at my brothers, and we went out to eat. I cheated a little bit and had a draft beer while waiting for a table at a restaurant, also had a small rum and diet coke at the table.

Dinner - 2 pieces of grilled chicken covered in melted cheese and asparagus, and a big side of broccoli.

Exercise (early in the day) - 30 minutes jogging/walking on the treadmill

Sunday - 11/23

My brother had pretty much nothing I could eat for breakfast, so its a missed meal. I got some cheddar cheese and a slim-jim at about noon though before I headed back home.

Lunch - 2 McDonald's double-cheeseburgers without bread, and a side salad with Italian Dressing

Snacked on peanuts and lunchmeat/cheese throughout the day

Dinner - 6 big buffalo wings

No exercise.
 

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Monday, 11/24

Breakfast - 2 hot dogs and eggs w/ salsa and cheese
Lunch - Same as breakfast, but only one hotdog. A tangerine, and grapes
After Work - Some nuts and lunchmeat
Dinner - Can't remember, but I am 100% positive it was 'legal'. If I remember I'll edit.

No exercise

Tuesday, 11/25

Breakfast - Hotdogs and eggs w/ salsa and cheese
Lunch - A salad with Ranch dressing, 2 and 1/2 McDonald's double-cheeseburgers without the bread
After Work - A small piece of steak and some broccoli
Dinner - A steak salad w/ Sour cream and salsa for dressing.

Exercise - 30 minutes on the treadmill

Tommorow is Thanksgiving, so I'll be having a cheat meal for Lunch . . I need to step up the exercise more now. My ankle is 100%, so no more excuses.
 

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Well a few days later and another holiday over . . I did ok the last few days. A couple of days being good and exercising and a couple days letting my hair down I guess you can say. Back on track today . .
 
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