Former Exclusive Plate Wants to Meet after 2 Months Silence

[member160292]

As many of you recall earlier this year, I tried to delegate my 'GF' of 2 months to plate status. She didn't like the idea and said she loved me, but didn't see it working out - dumped me.
I get a text from her today after no contact from either side asking to meet for coffee. I was thinking about replying 'What's on your mind?'

So many possibilities here, like what's in the box? Did I get you pregnant?

 

[Stanley]

What is it you want from her?

 

[member160292]

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What is it you want from her?

I'm undecided on if I should keep her around as a plate, IF her intention is to still hang out. I'm just thinking about the worst possible scenarios on why she would reach out

 

[Stanley]

I'm undecided on if I should keep her around as a plate, IF her intention is to still hang out. I'm just thinking about the worst possible scenarios on why she would reach out

Don't waste energy on the possibilities. Take control of the situation and pursue what is you want, once you are decided that is.

 

[jaymbrs]

“Who is this?”

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Don't waste energy on the possibilities. Take control of the situation and pursue what is you want, once you are decided that is.

Yuppp. Keep it sexual. If she ain't about that life, then back to the abyss she goes.

 

[member160292]

What’s on your mind?

I’d like to see if we can reconnect, but if you’re not open to that or already seeing someone then it’s okay.

I’ll be on a trip with a plate Thursday for the weekend, likely after since I don’t want to think about it.
Decisions. Decisions.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

What’s on your mind?

I’d like to see if we can reconnect, but if you’re not open to that or already seeing someone then it’s okay.

I’ll be on a trip with a plate Thursday for the weekend, likely after since I don’t want to think about it.
Decisions. Decisions.

Not sure what there is to think about if you still want to fvck her.

Perfect situation...she will be coming back on your terms and you have control of things and if she tries to start with any BS again simply dismiss her.

 

[Barrister]

You can probably get some sex out of the situation, but it will come with the price of a lot of drama. Whenever you remove women from your life who act the wrong way, there is always a chance they come back into it eventually. When they do, they will try to do everything they can to appease you, but it is typically short-lived. The bad behavior will begin again. It is only a question of when.

So long as you are prepared for it to be a short temporary thing and prepared that she will eventually begin the bad behavior again you are good. Just don't think she is going to come back into plate status and want to stay that way.

 

[member160292]

I met her last night for a drink and apps. During the 2 hours, I was referencing the new things I introduced her to when we were together. She mentioned we took things a little too fast and I agreed with the candle analogy. Only kissed her on occasions, I felt getting her back to my place would have made myself thirsty and give her the upper hand

It looks like a good start in keeping it casual for a while.

 

[corsica]

I like to play it cool, extract sex from them and give them the hope of long term commitment. I don’t lie saying I want to marry, have kids, etc. I just don’t talk about it or change the subject.

Eventually they give up realizing there’s no chance. For those who played little games, I accept them like nothing happened, extracted some sex but keep as a plate. I don’t even bother to take them out. I might cook dinner or order something but I keep the resources invested in them to a minimum.
It’s funny how time humbles them.

I’m don’t feel guilty of damaging girls because they do that to themselves.