There, was that so difficult? You can have your own opinion about the matter, although it's not really clear what it is. But don't get all huffy and mad when I disagree with your opinion either. It goes both ways.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Former Co-Worker: Hot But Pissed At Me
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Meh, if I thought it were important, I would bring it up with whoever was responsible, and I have. Little **** I let go of, but if it's critical for everyone's survival, like our company's I address it. I think anyone would.
I certainly don't enjoy it, but if you knew the details, you would understand why I was upset.
Believe it or not, I get evaluated also and get critical feedback when appropriate. Usually it's very balanced: you are doing these things great, here's where you could improve. Sometimes I disagree or don't think it's fair but I give it time and reassess later if that's the case.
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Further proof that you rarely if ever get laid. Simultaneously extreme whiteknighting yet also overreacting like a little girl. All of this name calling and butthurt over a thread about anonymous people. Get your emotions under control. Be a man. This is just an internet thread.
I've actually tried to avoid her, since I know she frequents certain places, but we both go out relatively often and since there are only so many hotspots...
It's just a practical issue that I'd rather solve as such. Some people are unusually active on the social scene (I don't mean that in a bad way) and "avoiding" them becomes in effect impossible.
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Grow some balls son.. You had the opportunity to apologise, but YOU chose not to.
We gave you our opinion.. You may not like what our opinion is, but we are not going to go with what YOU WANT TO HEAR.. So don't get so butt hurt about it.
Take it as constructive criticism. If you get things wrong, just be a man, grow some nuts, and APOLOGISE
OK, so now you agree with me and are pretending to disagree with me! Talk about a lack of testicles. And a brain on top of that.
Obviously you don't much if at all so your opinion is irrelevant anyway. This is not a democracy. Dumbasses get called out. If you can't handle that, suck on it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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What are you gay?
I was swamped with work and under ridiculous deadline pressure, and most everyone realized that.
She is a very subdued, calm person but is borderline making a scene every time she sees me. It's time to put it to rest and have a laugh about it. If she's still pissy after a year, AND an apology, that's her problem.
Dude stop deflecting and going off topic about, being gay, or being a bunch of virgins here on SS.
The fact is your posting about a chick who doesn't want to KNOW you.. Why the hell would you need to create a thread about it.
Here is an idea.. Move the fuk on!
You messed up.. You couldn't control your emotions and you got it totally wrong!
She isn't interested.. What else is there left to say. No point apologising this late!
In the future, when you fuk up... Instead of leaving it for a YEAR and then crying about it like a little bich on a online forum haha
Just gather up some courage and apologise.. That's what a man does!
Your lack of composure is just embarrassing, but very entertaining.
Do you need a tissue?smokeforfun
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offtopic : @davidcarr when was the last time you took a vacation ? You look like you could relax and chill a bit.
ontopic : you need a vacation.
ontopic : you need a vacation.
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This is exactly why he messed up so badly with the hot chick.. Sheer Lack of self control of emotions.
To make matters Worse, most likely due to a complete LACK of options with woman, he is making threads about her one year later lol
Still holding on to hope.. Boohoo
Virginity. Confirmed.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.