"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Foriegn fiancée just arriving complains about not getting flowers

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my opinion: This chick is going to divorce this incel-tier boob, taking his money so that she can go bone Chad, who won't have to buy her any flowers. :mad:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my opinion: This chick is going to divorce this incel-tier boob, taking his money so that she can go bone Chad, who won't have to buy her any flowers. :mad:
The thumbnail alone shows this guy was punching way above his weight. He knew it, and she knew it, hence the disrespect.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've watched enough of these type videos to know that guy's that try to import in various chicks are delusional and usually 3-4 points below the girl's SMV. Transactional and love bought through resources(money, green card, stability, home, etc).

I watched one the other day where these Russian bride companies charge $4-6 for every message sent to their potential brides. LOL
 

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I've watched enough of these type videos to know that guy's that try to import in various chicks are delusional and usually 3-4 points below the girl's SMV. Transactional and love bought through resources(money, green card, stability, home, etc).

I watched one the other day where these Russian bride companies charge $4-6 for every message sent to their potential brides. LOL
Yes, they do and in most cases the women they're writing to don't even exist. It's just a scam to rack up fees.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SirBigBell

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Yes, they do and in most cases the women they're writing to don't even exist. It's just a scam to rack up fees.
Look, beta simps are a very lucrative market worth billions annually. Fleecing them is as easy as taking chocolate from a baby. These are a few examples of services where simps are washed and rinsed for their cash:

strip clubs
escorts
Street prostitutes
Russian/ Thai/ Mexican bride services
Phone sexlines
Sugar daddy sites
 
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