"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Forgot to get Number.....

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jmeh13

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This weekend I met this amazing girl (young, smart, very attractive, and very cool) obvious. I get a ton of girls but this one stands out!

We met at a restaurant with a whole bunch of friends just drinking and having good time. She talked my friends and I into going to a bar afterward. at the bar we talked and flitted. I cracked jokes on her and she would laugh a lot. she grabs my beer and shakes it which it was about empty and asks if id like another. of course i say yes. we stayed there for awhile and had a great time danced and what not she was holding my hand my the time we left. she wanted to take us to this party so we went

she was getting me my beer at the party and standing next to me rubbing my back and holding my hand. a lot of her friends showed up and the party was kinda lame so i told her i was going to bar with my friend cause it was his bday........ forgot to get her number

should i facebook her???( were in college btw so it the thing to do)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Go for it. It seems she has a high IL so I'd say add her on facebook and just say you forgot to get her number. Then call her up sometime and ask her out. Simple enough
 
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Sounds like she was into you. Not getting her number was a mistake, but recoverable only if you do it the right way.

When you facebook her send a message along with your friend request. Ask for her number in that message. If you don't, she'll assume you're putting her in the facebook friend zone. She also may think that you wimped out at asking for her number in person and wanted wait to go the facebook route to get it. But if she really had a good time with you, she'll reply with her number. When you call, convince yourself that she gave it to you that night if you need to prevent feeling weird about how you got it.

Good luck.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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