"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Forgot to get Number.....

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This weekend I met this amazing girl (young, smart, very attractive, and very cool) obvious. I get a ton of girls but this one stands out!

We met at a restaurant with a whole bunch of friends just drinking and having good time. She talked my friends and I into going to a bar afterward. at the bar we talked and flitted. I cracked jokes on her and she would laugh a lot. she grabs my beer and shakes it which it was about empty and asks if id like another. of course i say yes. we stayed there for awhile and had a great time danced and what not she was holding my hand my the time we left. she wanted to take us to this party so we went

she was getting me my beer at the party and standing next to me rubbing my back and holding my hand. a lot of her friends showed up and the party was kinda lame so i told her i was going to bar with my friend cause it was his bday........ forgot to get her number

should i facebook her???( were in college btw so it the thing to do)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Go for it. It seems she has a high IL so I'd say add her on facebook and just say you forgot to get her number. Then call her up sometime and ask her out. Simple enough
 
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Sounds like she was into you. Not getting her number was a mistake, but recoverable only if you do it the right way.

When you facebook her send a message along with your friend request. Ask for her number in that message. If you don't, she'll assume you're putting her in the facebook friend zone. She also may think that you wimped out at asking for her number in person and wanted wait to go the facebook route to get it. But if she really had a good time with you, she'll reply with her number. When you call, convince yourself that she gave it to you that night if you need to prevent feeling weird about how you got it.

Good luck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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