"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Forgot the girls name..

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CantTouchMyStyle

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I will keep this short and sweet.

I got out of control drunk last night downtown and don't remember much about my night. Other than I got a few numbers and was macking on this one chick for most of the night. My friends said I was making out with her most of the night. I don't remember much of it at all.

Like a drunk idiot, when I called her phone from mine I didn't save her # under a name.

Need a creative way to find out her name. It was a random girl, none of my friends know her, etc..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"So I am a horrible speller, how do you spell your name so I have it in my phone correctly?"

The drawback is she'll think your a dumb@ss if her name is Jane or something.
 
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FreD_BeaR

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This reminds me of a situation I had a couple weeks ago. Got extremely drunk, was dancing with a girl for a good portion of the night. Turns out she wasnt that great looking, but hey she bought me a drink and beer goggles were in full force that evening. Anyway, I got her number. She texted me a few times, but I remebered that she wasnt great looking, so I just teased her for fun. Getting back to how this is relevent. I saw her around at school and she texted me saying she saw me. Bla bla bla....

Her: "Do you ever remember what I look like? lol"
Me: " Ofcourse, I never forget a face. Names on the other hand....."
Her: " the name is **** and you owe big time now haha"

Have you texted her yet? If not send her a text " Whos number is this?"
Should be easy to play off.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Usually when I do these things I just send a text like...

"What was your name again? I saved your number as (crazy, hottie, sexy, drama queen... Ect) and surely that is not it! :p"

Cheers!
 
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WhitePimp

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Madame Bovary?

Or just use names like "babe, girl, etc" till you can meet up and figure it out
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if you havnt texted her yet ... do this "who is this again?"
if you have texted her a bit already you should just wait and next time you see her introduce her to your friend and then wait for her to say her name
 
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