"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Forgot her name?

DJ_Trainee_10

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It's happen to all of us before.

If you KNOW a girl you are interested in and you FORGOT her name... you can always ask her what her name is.

But if you don't want to look like you forgot her name and possibley lose a few points (maybe not), you can play it off many ways such as:

-Ask to see her license or school ID; look for her name.
-Get a friend and introduce him/her to her and have your friend say "Hi, my name is John/Jane"; she'll say her name.
-Ask her to spell her name; this requires you to think :confused: hah.
-Ask her to mark her birthday on your assignment notebook (most highschoolers are given one). This ones a twofor. You get her birthday and her name.

There's a bunch of ways to play this off. Just be creative.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ace of Flames

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what if u cant SAY her name?

i talk to this girl who has a very... uh... unique name, and i forget how she pronounced it. it starts with an X, so i just call her X when i need to say her name. usually i just say, "hey girl!" or something along those lines, but i'd rather be able to call her by her name.

any idea how to figure this one out?
 
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Why don't you just act like it was nothing and say "What's your name again?" with sincerity and she shouldn't get offended or anything. Just remember it afterwards/
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
what if u cant SAY her name?

i talk to this girl who has a very... uh... unique name, and i forget how she pronounced it. it starts with an X, so i just call her X when i need to say her name. usually i just say, "hey girl!" or something along those lines, but i'd rather be able to call her by her name.

any idea how to figure this one out?
-Ask her to spell her name; this requires you to think hah.
-Ask her to mark her birthday on your assignment notebook (most highschoolers are given one). This ones a twofor. You get her birthday and her name.
 
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