"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Forgot her name?

DJ_Trainee_10

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It's happen to all of us before.

If you KNOW a girl you are interested in and you FORGOT her name... you can always ask her what her name is.

But if you don't want to look like you forgot her name and possibley lose a few points (maybe not), you can play it off many ways such as:

-Ask to see her license or school ID; look for her name.
-Get a friend and introduce him/her to her and have your friend say "Hi, my name is John/Jane"; she'll say her name.
-Ask her to spell her name; this requires you to think :confused: hah.
-Ask her to mark her birthday on your assignment notebook (most highschoolers are given one). This ones a twofor. You get her birthday and her name.

There's a bunch of ways to play this off. Just be creative.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ace of Flames

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what if u cant SAY her name?

i talk to this girl who has a very... uh... unique name, and i forget how she pronounced it. it starts with an X, so i just call her X when i need to say her name. usually i just say, "hey girl!" or something along those lines, but i'd rather be able to call her by her name.

any idea how to figure this one out?
 
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Why don't you just act like it was nothing and say "What's your name again?" with sincerity and she shouldn't get offended or anything. Just remember it afterwards/
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
what if u cant SAY her name?

i talk to this girl who has a very... uh... unique name, and i forget how she pronounced it. it starts with an X, so i just call her X when i need to say her name. usually i just say, "hey girl!" or something along those lines, but i'd rather be able to call her by her name.

any idea how to figure this one out?
-Ask her to spell her name; this requires you to think hah.
-Ask her to mark her birthday on your assignment notebook (most highschoolers are given one). This ones a twofor. You get her birthday and her name.
 
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