I cold approached this girl last week who was sitting at a table by herself in the university cafeteria. After a 5 minute chat, she wrote down her number for me, but without writing down her name. It sounded like Irina? or maybe Ina? I asked her what kind of name that is and she said she's Spanish. I'm leaning toward something that sounds like Irina because I just seem to remember it being more than one-syllable. I hope you guys can deduce it just from this info. Otherwise, what do you guys suggest?
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Forgot her name, still call?
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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hubris
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Her name is Ina. And you should call.
(No I don't actually know her name, just pretend as though you do. If you get the name wrong you can turn it into a joke. Also, she probably lives in a dorm, so if her dorm mates pick up they'll help set you straight).
(No I don't actually know her name, just pretend as though you do. If you get the name wrong you can turn it into a joke. Also, she probably lives in a dorm, so if her dorm mates pick up they'll help set you straight).
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That is always embarassing... Did she write her name ? Cause if not it just might ahve been a test to see how much you paid attention...
You could always call and just say : 'Hey, how's it going? I really had a lot of fun at XXX, what do you say we get together at XXX at XXX time?'
Most of the time, it is a losing batte... but probly worth the effort if you want.
You could always call and just say : 'Hey, how's it going? I really had a lot of fun at XXX, what do you say we get together at XXX at XXX time?'
Most of the time, it is a losing batte... but probly worth the effort if you want.
scarlettorocker
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And she might have forgotten your name as well, so why doncha call and get the ball rolling?
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Here is what I did once when I had this problem
Her: Hello?
WFH: I like your name. What does it mean in Spanish? (She will said her name again and tell you the story.)
Her: Hello?
WFH: I like your name. What does it mean in Spanish? (She will said her name again and tell you the story.)
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ScottWWU
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This actually happens to me quite a bit because my memory isn't so great these days. Unless they have a really common name, it is easiest just to ask them how to spell it so you can put it into your cell phone or something like that. Obviously if her name is like "Sarah" or something that is going to sound stupid, but in your case it seems reasonable!
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scarlettorocker
Don Juan
I dunno lads, you're really wracking your brains about this one. It's nice of you that you're worried about forgetting her name, but these things happen, and if you just call her and ask to speak to Ina (it might be Inez, y'know). If you have got the name wrong, just admit it, nicely of course, perhaps adding that you hope she doesn't think you're rude for doing so, and that you'd love to take her out for coffee sometime soon. As a woman myself, I would not be offended, and if I'd given the guy my number in the first place, I would be happy for him to call me. Only a stuck-up twit would be offended, and if you're immediately pleasant towards her when you're making the call, I can't see that she wouldn't be understanding if she's a nice lady. Make that call now!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Simple....."Hey whats going on its static, i met you in the cafeteria last XXX. You're going to have to let me know how to pronounce your name again, it isn't right to mispronounce a pretty name."
If you need to, make small talk on how it always bugged you when people forgot/mispronounced your name.
definitely call, you may get her answering machine and it'll solve the problem for you...
If you need to, make small talk on how it always bugged you when people forgot/mispronounced your name.
definitely call, you may get her answering machine and it'll solve the problem for you...
scarlettorocker
Don Juan
DarkNugg, that's so cool! It's honest and you're flattering her without being too creepy. And then let the conversation will flow...