"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Forgive me father for I have sinned

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guywhoneedshelp

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I was hittin' on this HB9 at the bar yesterday and doing some GM and she was showing some IOI's I got her number and stuff we were texting this is the second time I met her. Last time I met her at this same bar and texted her sayin' I was comin' back so she came back and stuff.

Anyway I was at work here and decided to search her first name on Facebook and eventually after like 7 pages I found her.

I looked at all her pictures she is with a boy! Then it says in a relationship on her profile! Maybe the profile is outdated? I dunno, I feel so bad wow girls can't be trusted omggggg forgive me father I have sinned
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow, man. Chill. Care not abit about her guy. If you two are hitting along well, it means that she might actually leave her guy for you. (not that i would encourage). But hey, you should really keep text messages to a zero. Calling is much better.
 
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guywhoneedshelp said:
I was hittin' on this HB9 at the bar yesterday and doing some GM and she was showing some IOI's I got her number and stuff we were texting this is the second time I met her. Last time I met her at this same bar and texted her sayin' I was comin' back so she came back and stuff.

Anyway I was at work here and decided to search her first name on Facebook and eventually after like 7 pages I found her.

I looked at all her pictures she is with a boy! Then it says in a relationship on her profile! Maybe the profile is outdated? I dunno, I feel so bad wow girls can't be trusted omggggg forgive me father I have sinned
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HHHHAAAAHHHHHAAAAA!!! you're going to hell............i'll see you there.
 
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but you haven't even got any from her yet either?? so..... really she hasn't done anything wrong?

and its none of your business that she has a boyfriend anyhow. She didn't tell you she had a boyfriend so as far as you and her are concerned, it doesn't matter.

the only reason you know she has a boyfriend is cause you did some detective work and searched her out - err stalked.


....Texting is fine.

....All hot girls usually have boyfriends or FB's any many suitors - this doesn't concern us....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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