"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Forgive me father for I have sinned

guywhoneedshelp

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I was hittin' on this HB9 at the bar yesterday and doing some GM and she was showing some IOI's I got her number and stuff we were texting this is the second time I met her. Last time I met her at this same bar and texted her sayin' I was comin' back so she came back and stuff.

Anyway I was at work here and decided to search her first name on Facebook and eventually after like 7 pages I found her.

I looked at all her pictures she is with a boy! Then it says in a relationship on her profile! Maybe the profile is outdated? I dunno, I feel so bad wow girls can't be trusted omggggg forgive me father I have sinned
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nivre

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Wow, man. Chill. Care not abit about her guy. If you two are hitting along well, it means that she might actually leave her guy for you. (not that i would encourage). But hey, you should really keep text messages to a zero. Calling is much better.
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I was hittin' on this HB9 at the bar yesterday and doing some GM and she was showing some IOI's I got her number and stuff we were texting this is the second time I met her. Last time I met her at this same bar and texted her sayin' I was comin' back so she came back and stuff.

Anyway I was at work here and decided to search her first name on Facebook and eventually after like 7 pages I found her.

I looked at all her pictures she is with a boy! Then it says in a relationship on her profile! Maybe the profile is outdated? I dunno, I feel so bad wow girls can't be trusted omggggg forgive me father I have sinned
HHHHAAAAHHHHHAAAAA!!! you're going to hell............i'll see you there.
 

Randallpink83

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but you haven't even got any from her yet either?? so..... really she hasn't done anything wrong?

and its none of your business that she has a boyfriend anyhow. She didn't tell you she had a boyfriend so as far as you and her are concerned, it doesn't matter.

the only reason you know she has a boyfriend is cause you did some detective work and searched her out - err stalked.


....Texting is fine.

....All hot girls usually have boyfriends or FB's any many suitors - this doesn't concern us....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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