That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Never ever has this been true, from any girl at any point in history. ALL women are open for a relationship, no matter the circumstances, if the right man comes along. She is just not interested and is blowing you off in a nice way. Next her man, it's never gonna happen..Originally posted by Bill-RiZeR
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And the worst part about it is that I'm gonna be in class with a girl whom I like a lot but she isn't interested in a relationship atm...(You know the women who have their priorities set to getting a carreer/education done before anything else...but hey, love is a powerful thing...)
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by reyalp
**** yeah sarge it, this is the night!
i went into walmart yesterday afternoon and did approaches, i got 9 phone #s!
i felt like a raw steak in the middle of a pack of hungry wolves!
then i got back home, got on the net, did some sarging online too. got 2 phone #s last night from the net.
i rang up some of the pack last night, had great results there as well. i could smellll the singleness in their voice.
end result:
2 dates today on v-day, a date friday & saturday, and tons of women fighting for my attention
plus, today's my last day working the storm, so i'm free to coast for a while. i'm talking to another company down here about doing some work for them, we'll see how that goes. from how it sounds so far, i can still make $500-1000 a day and only work 8-5 M-F , which is even better.
so, life is goood.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Damn reyalp I want your job........I only make 1400 a monthi can still make $500-1000 a day and only work 8-5 M-F
got any construction knowledge?Originally posted by El MonoLoco
Damn reyalp I want your job........I only make 1400 a month![]()