"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Forget the HB scale.....

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it all boils down to this for ALL of US.

Think about it.....

"From judging facial attractiveness based on objective measures, very few women are ugly and very few women are strikingly pretty. Most women, based on our own subjective tastes will appear either average looking or attractive."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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stuka1939 said:
it all boils down to this for ALL of US.

Think about it.....

"From judging facial attractiveness based on objective measures, very few women are ugly and very few women are strikingly pretty. Most women, based on our own subjective tastes will appear either average looking or attractive."
I dont take advice from virgins...:crackup:
 

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Nah, I agree.
Attractiveness is subject to the bell curve across the general population. This applies to men also.

You have a few genetically blessed individuals who appeal to everyone, and you have a few cursed individuals who appeal to no one. The rest of us are right there in the middle. Just a fact of life.
 

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insidious said:
Nah, I agree.
Attractiveness is subject to the bell curve across the general population. This applies to men also.

You have a few genetically blessed individuals who appeal to everyone, and you have a few cursed individuals who appeal to no one. The rest of us are right there in the middle. Just a fact of life.

One thing is for sure though. There are ALOT more genetically blessed women out there than men.
 

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stuka1939 said:
One thing is for sure though. There are ALOT more genetically blessed women out there than men.
This has to be the dumbest thing I've read all week.

Ken785 said:
I dont take advice from virgins...
And if this is true why the fvck do you have 370 posts? Lets hope theyre all in fitness and anything else.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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stuka1939 said:
it all boils down to this for ALL of US.

Think about it.....

"From judging facial attractiveness based on objective measures, very few women are ugly and very few women are strikingly pretty. Most women, based on our own subjective tastes will appear either average looking or attractive."
Agree wholly. I was actually half way through writing a long post on this.
 
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stuka1939 said:
it all boils down to this for ALL of US.

Think about it.....

"From judging facial attractiveness based on objective measures, very few women are ugly and very few women are strikingly pretty. Most women, based on our own subjective tastes will appear either average looking or attractive."

So do you actually have a point or was this completely unscientific attempt at announcing a statistic just an excuse to start yet another thread about looks?

I mean, let's see...the last looks thread you started was... 4 days ago. Something about how we shouldn't be intimidated around hot chicks. Yeah, I guess you're due. Wouldn't want to let a week go by without starting at LEAST two vague and unhelpful threads about looks.
 
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