"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Forget the HB scale.....

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it all boils down to this for ALL of US.

Think about it.....

"From judging facial attractiveness based on objective measures, very few women are ugly and very few women are strikingly pretty. Most women, based on our own subjective tastes will appear either average looking or attractive."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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stuka1939 said:
it all boils down to this for ALL of US.

Think about it.....

"From judging facial attractiveness based on objective measures, very few women are ugly and very few women are strikingly pretty. Most women, based on our own subjective tastes will appear either average looking or attractive."
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I dont take advice from virgins...:crackup:
 
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Nah, I agree.
Attractiveness is subject to the bell curve across the general population. This applies to men also.

You have a few genetically blessed individuals who appeal to everyone, and you have a few cursed individuals who appeal to no one. The rest of us are right there in the middle. Just a fact of life.
 
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insidious said:
Nah, I agree.
Attractiveness is subject to the bell curve across the general population. This applies to men also.

You have a few genetically blessed individuals who appeal to everyone, and you have a few cursed individuals who appeal to no one. The rest of us are right there in the middle. Just a fact of life.
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One thing is for sure though. There are ALOT more genetically blessed women out there than men.
 
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stuka1939 said:
One thing is for sure though. There are ALOT more genetically blessed women out there than men.
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This has to be the dumbest thing I've read all week.

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I dont take advice from virgins...
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And if this is true why the fvck do you have 370 posts? Lets hope theyre all in fitness and anything else.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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stuka1939 said:
it all boils down to this for ALL of US.

Think about it.....

"From judging facial attractiveness based on objective measures, very few women are ugly and very few women are strikingly pretty. Most women, based on our own subjective tastes will appear either average looking or attractive."
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Agree wholly. I was actually half way through writing a long post on this.
 
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stuka1939 said:
it all boils down to this for ALL of US.

Think about it.....

"From judging facial attractiveness based on objective measures, very few women are ugly and very few women are strikingly pretty. Most women, based on our own subjective tastes will appear either average looking or attractive."
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So do you actually have a point or was this completely unscientific attempt at announcing a statistic just an excuse to start yet another thread about looks?

I mean, let's see...the last looks thread you started was... 4 days ago. Something about how we shouldn't be intimidated around hot chicks. Yeah, I guess you're due. Wouldn't want to let a week go by without starting at LEAST two vague and unhelpful threads about looks.
 
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