"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Forget the Bible!

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Juan_Man

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Well, don't completely forget the Bible, but if you are a desperate guy, jilted or clueless, then just look at the tenets of Tom Leykis as some cliff notes, quick tips.

http://www.tenetsofleykis.com/

I used to think he was a bitter loser, but the man's a genius.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'd feel better about following his rules if he could spell and use grammar correctly.

Yikes.

Oh, and his advice sucks too.
 
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The tabasco sauce in the used condom was pretty funny.
 
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Some make sense....alot are bull.



Sarge On!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow, Leykis the fat computer geek strikes.

Heh, sorry, that was harsh. Just..a lot of that advice is..horrible.

Stick to the tried and true DJ bible.
 
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LOL This is funny sh1t. I think it's supposed to be a joke. Anyway, this dork is spending 40$ a pop taking girls on 'dates' which means he is spending up to 120$ without even getting laid. He isn't 'dating', he is trying to pay money for sex. Then he telegraphs huge insecurity's like do not talk to groups, leave if her cell ever rings, etc.

All these rules are trying to compensate for the fact that women aren't very interested in average guys who don't understand what they want and expect. Why be the average guy? I'll even use a 'rule' from a movie, Tao of Steve's be excellent comes to mind here.
 
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