"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Forget intelligence. Imagination is more important.

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That's not to say being smart can be helpful. Also, girls will probably prefer a smart guy over a dumb guy, as long as they are equally attractive.


I found this quote interesting though:
"Women are not attracted to genius, only strength and imagination." - Pook

Girls like strong guys; this is obvious. Not just physical strength (in other words, buff/toned muscular guys who are physically attractive), but mental strength (being assertive, confident, knowing what you want and going for it, etc.).

How are girls attracted to imagination, though? What does Pook mean by this exactly? Being sexually imaginative? Creative on dates? Thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That quote of his was vague and didn't pertain to anything. It would be like me saying "Women are not attracted to money, only to the mind."

Sounds good, means nothing. Most of what pook posted was abstract rhetoric not meant to be taken literally.
 
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Women like someone who can add color the otherwise sometimes monotonous and bland life.
 
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DanDaMan said:
Women like someone who can add color the otherwise sometimes monotonous and bland life.
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Yeas, that's most fitting of all the variations. Very good, Sir.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Imagination is like creativity but with more passion...

Creativity is rational
Imagination has no boundaries.
 
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DanDaMan said:
Women like someone who can add color the otherwise sometimes monotonous and bland life.
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For me to give my awesomeness to a girl she has to have a tight ass, good bj skills, and fry a mean steak. :)
 
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