"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Forget intelligence. Imagination is more important.

MrJibbles

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That's not to say being smart can be helpful. Also, girls will probably prefer a smart guy over a dumb guy, as long as they are equally attractive.


I found this quote interesting though:
"Women are not attracted to genius, only strength and imagination." - Pook

Girls like strong guys; this is obvious. Not just physical strength (in other words, buff/toned muscular guys who are physically attractive), but mental strength (being assertive, confident, knowing what you want and going for it, etc.).

How are girls attracted to imagination, though? What does Pook mean by this exactly? Being sexually imaginative? Creative on dates? Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GreatHornedOwl

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That quote of his was vague and didn't pertain to anything. It would be like me saying "Women are not attracted to money, only to the mind."

Sounds good, means nothing. Most of what pook posted was abstract rhetoric not meant to be taken literally.
 

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Women like someone who can add color the otherwise sometimes monotonous and bland life.
 

PapiChulo

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DanDaMan said:
Women like someone who can add color the otherwise sometimes monotonous and bland life.
Yeas, that's most fitting of all the variations. Very good, Sir.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Imagination is like creativity but with more passion...

Creativity is rational
Imagination has no boundaries.
 

Burroughs

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DanDaMan said:
Women like someone who can add color the otherwise sometimes monotonous and bland life.
For me to give my awesomeness to a girl she has to have a tight ass, good bj skills, and fry a mean steak. :)
 
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