"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hydrocodone

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ive been talking to this european chick for about a month now online and on the phone(she pays for the calls).we like each other alot and and have tons in common and just click.and recently shes been suggesting that she comes down here to visit me,i have no problem with that since im not the one spending anything.this is just sort of insane though,i know long distance s**t never works out,and this is an extreme case of long distance. i just dont know what to make of it, i dont wanna get too attached cause shes like 12,000 miles away and it would be foolish.im just thinking i should wait and see what the hell happens when she does come down here(she's saveing up). whats your guy's take on it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hydrocodone

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shes amazingly hot though! i figure since im not spending a dime what do i got to lose besides getting laid 5 times a day with some hot eastern european chick for a week?
 

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Originally posted by hydrocodone
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Dude, be very careful with these types. There is a HUGE potential for scams with these types. If in the event she does come, she's gonna put HEAVY pressure on you to marry her. And do you know why? She wants citizenship! She's probably already married back home with 2 kids named "Sasha" and "Svetlana" Know what else? - if you do wind up hanging out and spending lots of time with her, she'll most likely be making many long distance phone calls back home to her "brother" which will in most cases be her husband, BF, or even pimp.

Do yourself a favor and do internet searches on these types of scams. It'll give you some insight and perhaps things to expect.

Don't do it !!!
 

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12,000 miles???? Sounds more like Asia (most of Russia is Asian...including Moscow). My advice is to study a Slavic language and take a vacation first. If you like it then look at the local property market (you can live really large in many parts). Most areas have large expat populations, so you shouldn't ever feel that isolated. Once you are settled you should have no problems meeting some of the World's most beautiful girls. Few, if any of the rules you hear on here will apply to them. Just be yourself and you should have no problem finding many beautiful girls who will want to be your girlfriend. That is the key. They will WANT to be your girlfriend. You don't have to spend days plotting lame strategies to get an unattractive over-the-hill woman to give you the time of day.

The Internet as a whole is spooky. I wouldn't trust meeting any girl in person that I first met online. People change drastically once you get them face to face.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dont let her some here. Its a scam & she will rip you off. Eastern European babes are hot but many are professional theives. Beware!
 

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Racer...
Check your posts before posting. They hardly ever make any sense.
 

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Honestly, I would have to agree with the guy that said you should take a trip out there. Go on a vacation, have fun. I went to Germany with my sister when I was 19... and met some really gorgeous girls. Some were older than me, some were younger... but damn it's easy to get laid there. People in Europe are much more casual about sex, it's not taboo and you don't have to play stupid games.

I personally wouldn't make plans to have some chick from another country come visit me for a week. It wouldn't be logical, I'm too busy to entertain some broad for 7 days straight. That and I'd find it hard to trust someone's intentions that wants to fly out thousands of miles to spend time with me when I had never met them in real life before. Actually I find it hard to trust anyones intentions... but thats just me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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