"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ive been talking to this european chick for about a month now online and on the phone(she pays for the calls).we like each other alot and and have tons in common and just click.and recently shes been suggesting that she comes down here to visit me,i have no problem with that since im not the one spending anything.this is just sort of insane though,i know long distance s**t never works out,and this is an extreme case of long distance. i just dont know what to make of it, i dont wanna get too attached cause shes like 12,000 miles away and it would be foolish.im just thinking i should wait and see what the hell happens when she does come down here(she's saveing up). whats your guy's take on it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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shes amazingly hot though! i figure since im not spending a dime what do i got to lose besides getting laid 5 times a day with some hot eastern european chick for a week?
 

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Originally posted by hydrocodone
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Dude, be very careful with these types. There is a HUGE potential for scams with these types. If in the event she does come, she's gonna put HEAVY pressure on you to marry her. And do you know why? She wants citizenship! She's probably already married back home with 2 kids named "Sasha" and "Svetlana" Know what else? - if you do wind up hanging out and spending lots of time with her, she'll most likely be making many long distance phone calls back home to her "brother" which will in most cases be her husband, BF, or even pimp.

Do yourself a favor and do internet searches on these types of scams. It'll give you some insight and perhaps things to expect.

Don't do it !!!
 

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12,000 miles???? Sounds more like Asia (most of Russia is Asian...including Moscow). My advice is to study a Slavic language and take a vacation first. If you like it then look at the local property market (you can live really large in many parts). Most areas have large expat populations, so you shouldn't ever feel that isolated. Once you are settled you should have no problems meeting some of the World's most beautiful girls. Few, if any of the rules you hear on here will apply to them. Just be yourself and you should have no problem finding many beautiful girls who will want to be your girlfriend. That is the key. They will WANT to be your girlfriend. You don't have to spend days plotting lame strategies to get an unattractive over-the-hill woman to give you the time of day.

The Internet as a whole is spooky. I wouldn't trust meeting any girl in person that I first met online. People change drastically once you get them face to face.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dont let her some here. Its a scam & she will rip you off. Eastern European babes are hot but many are professional theives. Beware!
 

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Racer...
Check your posts before posting. They hardly ever make any sense.
 

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Honestly, I would have to agree with the guy that said you should take a trip out there. Go on a vacation, have fun. I went to Germany with my sister when I was 19... and met some really gorgeous girls. Some were older than me, some were younger... but damn it's easy to get laid there. People in Europe are much more casual about sex, it's not taboo and you don't have to play stupid games.

I personally wouldn't make plans to have some chick from another country come visit me for a week. It wouldn't be logical, I'm too busy to entertain some broad for 7 days straight. That and I'd find it hard to trust someone's intentions that wants to fly out thousands of miles to spend time with me when I had never met them in real life before. Actually I find it hard to trust anyones intentions... but thats just me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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