"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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For you HS Seniors: What college are you going to?

NYC Dude

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Oh snap, can't believe this post got revived. Looking back at it, I probably would have had a much more fun time partying at a larger school but I don't regret coming to Mudd. Sadly, our incoming class less than about 30% girls of which absolutely none were hot, but I've made the most of it with the other Claremont schools right next door. I guess the key thing to realize is that you have to go to a school that you want to go to (and that will give you fat scholarships if you can get 'em), because you can always make the most of your situation when it comes to socializing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I didn't even realize that the original posts were so old. So I guess since you have already been there for a year I can ask some questions.

How is the party scene at the 5C's and more importantly how are the girls?
 

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There are a lot of liars and overachievers on this thread, but w/e. I'm a few weeks away from completing my freshmen year at community college :woo:
 

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For you guys that got into good colleges, can you advise me if I should leave or keep my job? I'm in hs right now
 
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qwerty654321 said:
For you guys that got into good colleges, can you advise me if I should leave or keep my job? I'm in hs right now
lol what do you mean by job? Like internship or working at MacD on the weekends? If your college is close or your commuting then there's no reason why you should quit your job. lol It's not hard to find a job, if you move to another state then ya you should quit your job... lol

Do you mean should I keep my job so I can include it in the transcript? It depends on what college, internships are 10 times better than just working. Still working is better than doing nothing. Extra curricular/ clubs are worth more to admission, unless your poor and need financial aid. If your applying for it, you def need to work during the summer and show that your trying to make money for college.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Accepted - Duke, Georgetown, Johns Hopkins, USC, UCLA, UCSD, UCI, and Vanderbilt.

Denied - Stanford and Cal

I'm going to Duke next year
 

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My school is on a 4.0 with 1 pt added for honors, and 2 pts added for AP.

GPA is 3.78, father is of Cuban descent, president of the Tech Club, attended the Broward County Science Fair, and SAT is a 1040 on the old scale (1580 on the new scale). How am I doing? Enough for UF? :(
 

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My brother has better stats than all of you (yes, every single test he has outachieved all of you, plus GPA, good activities, etc) and he got denied at Stanford, Yale, Princeton, Harvard, and MIT. WTF...
 
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My brother has better stats than all of you (yes, every single test he has outachieved all of you, plus GPA, good activities, etc) and he got denied at Stanford, Yale, Princeton, Harvard, and MIT. WTF...
Maybe he was a total c*nt in the interview or he's g*y, meaning he should have attended Brown. :yawn:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Maybe he was a total c*nt in the interview or he's g*y, meaning he should have attended Brown. :yawn:
He's great in interviews, has had a lot of practice on TV and newspapers...and lol, no, not gay...
 
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He's great in interviews, has had a lot of practice on TV and newspapers...and lol, no, not gay...
Was he waitlisted? Or simply rejected? It could have been a year when there was too many competition and there's always affirmative action that takes away lots of spots from more qualified kids.

If he had a 4.0 GPA, 2300-2400 SAT, excellent interview, no criminal record/ diciplinary record, community service 20+ hours, various extra curricular clubs for couple years, varsity sports, art or musical talent, good teacher and guidance office recommendations and didn't get in to any of those schools. Something is wrong and he should have complained.
 

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Rejected at all of them. And yes, this year supposedly was extremely competitive. And he is Asian, so that might have hurt.

GPA: 4.7, valedictorian
SAT: 2380
decent to excellent interviews
no criminal record
community service: at least 80 in high school, probably 100 more if you count middle school
3 or 4 clubs, with leadership positions in all
1 sport, cofounder of the club, officer, and team captain
plays 1 instrument
good recommendations
a couple national competitions and countless state competitions

Yeah, we have no fvkcing idea what happened. They don't take any complaints or appeals though, it's gay.
 
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Oh he's ASIAN that makes ALL THE DIFFERANCE. It's not fair, but recently all the top colleges are cutting down the number of asian students to create a diverse student body. Of course before 2000 there were many schools with little to no asian population, so they decided to recruit more asians. Now there are too many of them and according to my uncle who works at one of these Ivy schools they're just cutting down, so it's hardest for asians right now to get into really good schools.
 

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right. That makes sense, the amount of Asians applying to these schools at this point is ridiculous, so yeah...Stanford is like 40% Asian right now...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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He fvcked up his essays. The schools he got denied at felt he wasn't a good match for what they had to offer and what they were looking for in their class. Just about everyone applying to those schools has amazing ecs and scores and grades. The essays and teacher recs are what set applicants apart. He either had a teacher write something crappy about him (or perhaps was new at writing a recommendation) or he messed up on his essays. Something in his application was weak...
 

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I find it more likely that it was because he was Asian...he is an excellent writer, had the best English teacher in the school go over all his essays, and his recs were great I'm assuming because the teachers he got all love him and have 10-15+ years of experience...
 

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Your brother was probably a nerd, and they get enough nerds. They want people with personality.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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