Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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For you HS Seniors: What college are you going to?

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Or MSU could mean Missouri State University, which basically sucks balls, Im already taking classes there and I am a Soph in HS.

Im planning on going to UMKC (University of Missouri-Kansas City). My Mom and Dad both went there, and I really want to do the 6-year med-school program.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I applied to MSU because they offered a full ride and I'm poor. =)

It was purely for "plan C" purposes.

If anyone wants to know my stats, here they are. Remember though, you don't need to have numbers like this to get into top schools:

SAT 2280 (800 M, 730 V, 750 W)
SAT II: 720 Lit, 720 Math IC, 770 Bio
AP Tests: 4- English Language, 5- United States History
State Qualifier in debate, state qualifier in piano
Lots of volunteering hours
President of Chess Club
P.I.M.P.

Yes, the last two might seem contradictory, but I hold it down in my 'hood.
 

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all of you are ****ing smart... a little too much time into the books, and not enough time with girls huh? but thats cool, all of you are probably going to end up really good finanically so money as well as women will probably come at the same time.
 

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Flabbergasped? said:
I applied to MSU because they offered a full ride and I'm poor. =)

It was purely for "plan C" purposes.

If anyone wants to know my stats, here they are. Remember though, you don't need to have numbers like this to get into top schools:

SAT 2280 (800 M, 730 V, 750 W)
SAT II: 720 Lit, 720 Math IC, 770 Bio
AP Tests: 4- English Language, 5- United States History
State Qualifier in debate, state qualifier in piano
Lots of volunteering hours
President of Chess Club
P.I.M.P.

Yes, the last two might seem contradictory, but I hold it down in my 'hood.
Are you black or hispanic?
 

VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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BUMP! Where's everyone going this year?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ill be going to Univ Rhode Island Next Year. (Kingston) I saw it and thought it was really nice, plus they gave me free tuition. I also liked when i found out the female to male ratio was almost 60%:40%
 

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Potbelly said:
good luck man. if you succeed, you'll probably get in anywhere.
What's with you and antiblack sentiments... you racist? My friend is black and he has a higher GPA than most kids 4.12 he actually studies and takes all AP courses, 2300s in the NEW SATs. He is planning to go to either MIT, Princton, Brown or Harvard.
 

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comic_relief said:
Millersville University

GPA is 3.7

accepted to Kutztown University but rejected it for MU

comic_relief

hey, im going to MU as well. Where do you live around?
 

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Ok, I guess it got bumped for 2007.

Well I live in a city just north of Boston.

Bit surprised to hear discussion on school people are going to in a forum that focus on getting girls mostly. Blah, that sounded more condesending then I intended, can't think of a more correct wording. Anyways I applied to ten schools.

Boston College (waitlisted), Brandeis (waitlisted), Tufts (rejected), RPI (waitlisted), WPI (Accpeted), College of the Holy Cross (Accepted), Boston University (Accepted), Clark University (Accepted), Northeastern (Accepted), and University of Massachusetts Amherst (Accepted).

Since I actually listed the schools I got in (and not), might as well ask this, useful to get a perspective by this site. Judging from my past posts and your experiences, what school of the six that accepted me should I take? Ignore financial aid.

In terms of academics my passions are divided between Computers and History. Making me part Computer nerd and part history buff. My sense of idealism and draw to history also cause me to see myself as a Humanist in both the philosophical and classical sense.

Socially, I would like to attend a party here and there, but I definately more drawn to other aspects of the social life. I much rather have a good circle of friends to have fun with, study with, and possibly an occasional adventure (of course a girl I like by my side too) (hmm... that also does not sound accurate, guess the best description is the Brandeis social life with parties not as prominent and so on, too bad I got waitlisted there).
 

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I wanted to go to Lehigh but got waitlisted =/ So now I'm going to Syracuse up in New York. Anybody go there or could give me some info on it ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Accepted: East Carolina, Virginia Commonwealth, Randolph Macon and Roanoke
Waitlisted: Univ of Vermont, Christopher Newport
Rejected: U of M(alumni-dad), James Madison and probably VTech, they're reviewing it now since my transcript was never sent by my school.

2.2 freshman yr, 2.5 soph, 2.7 junior, 3.5 senior
2 IBs and APs every year and advanced math every year.
Weightlifting team, Scuba diving, snowboarding


w/e, ECU here I come. So much hot punani and badass parties and decent school. Playboy visited once last year, and Girls Gone Wild twice. 9th for Hottest Coeds in the nation.
sweet.
 

we all eat food

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Community College for me lol, its the best thing, since im in special ed already so watever
 

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I go to a well-regarded high school in Los Angeles and I have a 1890 SAT, 3.7 gpa and I still got denied by a lot of schools...Might I note I am asian. However in todays world college admissions have to read about 50000 applications. How do you think you will rank amongst them. They randomly read about your personal self in the essay portions, its mainly the race you are, numbers you have and etc. The mayor of la's kid goes to my school and he has a 3.0 gpa and he got into princeton and every ivy league. So all that matters is who you know? Do you have money? And not to be racist, but are you of the "better" black or mexicans. Personally it pisses me off to be judged on a higher point scale because im asian as compared to so many mexicans who had a 3.0 and got into ucla and etc. Oh well thats life---just remember its are you really going to put yourself out there and learn or hide behind a school name going through the motions like so many robots in our world today.
 

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APs: 5,5,5,5,4,4,4,3,3

Denied at upper Ivies and accepted at Cornell, UCs, and USC. I think my SatIIs Killed it for me at the top schools. Heading to UC Berkeley next year. Anyone else going?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MoolahDiamond said:
2310 SAT
35 ACT
780IIC 690USH 680Lit
4.0uw 4.93w
APs: 5,5,5,5,4,4,4,3,3

Denied at upper Ivies and accepted at Cornell, UCs, and USC. I think my SatIIs Killed it for me at the top schools. Heading to UC Berkeley next year. Anyone else going?
Wow what upper Ivies denied you? One of my girlfriends are going to Harvard and she has the same track record as you. Well she kinda is like a school freak doing like 10 clubs and she prob had a good interview too.
 

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MoolahDiamond said:
2310 SAT
35 ACT
780IIC 690USH 680Lit
4.0uw 4.93w
APs: 5,5,5,5,4,4,4,3,3

Denied at upper Ivies and accepted at Cornell, UCs, and USC. I think my SatIIs Killed it for me at the top schools. Heading to UC Berkeley next year. Anyone else going?
wow ur smart

im goin to uci...not my first choice but wutever
 

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NYC Dude said:
I've decided on Harvey Mudd, so California here I come!
Congrats on Harvey Mudd. I'm going to Claremont McKenna next year so we will probably run into each other sometime.

For me, my grades and scores were on the low end for my school, but I had good extracuriculars (I was recruited by my school to play baseball there) and my interview with admissions went really well.

College Admissions is a really strange process that is borderline random. For anyone that is applying to college in the future, I would recommend buying The Ultimate College Accecptance System by Danny Ruderman. It really guides you through the proccess of applying to college, and I think it helped me get into my top choice.

Now I just have to find a way to pay for school....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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