"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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******** for"You Haven't Changed a Bit"

escobar04

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So I got out of class today and hear someone call my name

I turn around and see this 8 that I knew like 3 years ago back in High School

turns out she remembers me and tried to keep in touch

anyways, the first thing she tells me is "You haven't changed a bit"

however, not only I changed my apearance and style, I also changed my morals and persona about 180 degrees

what'd she mean by all that?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NoMoreAFC

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maybe that despite your improvements u still dont make her type
 

Double

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maybe she it was ironic and she wanted to be funny. why do you care so much?
 

penkitten

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depends on the voice tone
i think she means " you havent changed a bit"= guy i remember

when i say "you havent changed a bit " =" your still an prick"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i would take it as,"you're still sexy and i want to get with you even more than i did when i knew you before!"
 
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