"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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******** for"You Haven't Changed a Bit"

escobar04

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So I got out of class today and hear someone call my name

I turn around and see this 8 that I knew like 3 years ago back in High School

turns out she remembers me and tried to keep in touch

anyways, the first thing she tells me is "You haven't changed a bit"

however, not only I changed my apearance and style, I also changed my morals and persona about 180 degrees

what'd she mean by all that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NoMoreAFC

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maybe that despite your improvements u still dont make her type
 

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maybe she it was ironic and she wanted to be funny. why do you care so much?
 

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depends on the voice tone
i think she means " you havent changed a bit"= guy i remember

when i say "you havent changed a bit " =" your still an prick"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i would take it as,"you're still sexy and i want to get with you even more than i did when i knew you before!"
 
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