"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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For those you who are in casual relationships non monogamous relationships

Lostsoul85

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How often do you see your casual partner per week?

Secondly...any advice on what to do if they text you everyday?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

gravityeyelids

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You've gotta keep them at arm's length. I would say not more than 3ish days per week, TOPS. Which shouldnt be a problemt if you're spinning other plates and improving your body, mind and career. Girls are always gonna push for an exclusive relationship after so long.

As for texting every day..that's tricky. Personally, i didnt even like texting my LTR EVERY single day. Don't respond much. and if she calls you out on it, tell her that you're not a big fan of texting all the time. You don't like to be tethered to your phone and would rather just use it to make plans
 

Starfvcks 64

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Once a week and that's if I've got multiple plates or just one.
Sometimes twice a week if there is an event or something.

It's important to keep distant for a lot of reasons. Personally it helps me to stay focused in other things and other girls.

If a girl texts me everyday, fine. I kind of like it, As long as she isn't asking too many questions AKA whining. They won't get much conversation from me regardless and they're used to that.
 

Greasy Pig

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"If you see a chick more than twice a week, she's your girlfriend." - Old jungle saying.
Re the texting every day, respond rarely and when you do respond, don't leave it open ended by asking questions back.
Just reply with witty one liners and leave it at that. Don't engage.
 
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