"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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For those you who are in casual relationships non monogamous relationships

Lostsoul85

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How often do you see your casual partner per week?

Secondly...any advice on what to do if they text you everyday?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gravityeyelids

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You've gotta keep them at arm's length. I would say not more than 3ish days per week, TOPS. Which shouldnt be a problemt if you're spinning other plates and improving your body, mind and career. Girls are always gonna push for an exclusive relationship after so long.

As for texting every day..that's tricky. Personally, i didnt even like texting my LTR EVERY single day. Don't respond much. and if she calls you out on it, tell her that you're not a big fan of texting all the time. You don't like to be tethered to your phone and would rather just use it to make plans
 

Starfvcks 64

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Once a week and that's if I've got multiple plates or just one.
Sometimes twice a week if there is an event or something.

It's important to keep distant for a lot of reasons. Personally it helps me to stay focused in other things and other girls.

If a girl texts me everyday, fine. I kind of like it, As long as she isn't asking too many questions AKA whining. They won't get much conversation from me regardless and they're used to that.
 

Greasy Pig

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"If you see a chick more than twice a week, she's your girlfriend." - Old jungle saying.
Re the texting every day, respond rarely and when you do respond, don't leave it open ended by asking questions back.
Just reply with witty one liners and leave it at that. Don't engage.
 
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