"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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For those with MySpace accounts

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I've made a group called The Secret Society of Snauj Nod which is backwards for Don Juans, and if you got a myspace account PM me here so I can fill you in.

Thanks,
Dimebag
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Society of Snauj nod......Wow.....Just wow......thats like so totally clever...like OMG.....i like cant even like believe how totally awesome....can i like join...like OMG please......

get off the computer and rethink your life.....
 
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thanks for your enthusiasm. anymore words of encouragement?
 

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Don't these message boards here accomplish the same thing as the myspace group would?
 

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Originally posted by DrDiesel07
The Society of Snauj nod......Wow.....Just wow......thats like so totally clever...like OMG.....i like cant even like believe how totally awesome....can i like join...like OMG please......

get off the computer and rethink your life.....
your a moron

he's been here almost 3 years. you've been here a month
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm scratching those plans anyways because no one is interested and after a few beers I realized I wasn't really interested either...disregard the group.
 
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Re: Re: For those with MySpace accounts

Originally posted by JC Jerkson
LOL!

Sounds childish.


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I hate your kind boy, get on outta here before I grab the rope and get my truck.
 

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now, now children...

also, Mr. D has a point.
 
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Man, I know this girl from Ecuador. I made out with her in the soundroom of my school's TV studio.. IT WAS BIt*hIN!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sweet!

Actually, girls from ecuador tend to be either really hot or really ugly. Guess it all just depends on the person.
 
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Dude, before I spoke I ever even talked to her I thought she was hot but at my high school like 60% of the girls are either really cute or bombshells so make up and push up bras ain't sh*t to me but I see that all the guys stop and gaze at this girl and when I hear them talk about how they want to bang her brains out, it cracks me up. Anyways, I'm getting off the topic. Yeah I notice that girls from south america are either really hot or are missing certain qualities(a.k.a you a fat smelly hoe).
 
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