"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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For those who agonize over the difficulty of dating sites

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DonGorgon said:
This exact problem exists both on and off line... men usually out number women 15 to 1 in the dating game causing a major demand and supply disparity giving women tons of options and tins of power and little incentive to ever make a decision..[
15 to 1 ? where do you get this information? I agree it seems that way sometimes, but that doesn't make sense. Why would there be 15 single women for every single man? Do some guys keep harems or something, taking more than their share of the single women?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yama600rr said:
i think dating websites are really hard to pick up good looking women, even average looking women. i mean they have choices to pick from. why should they pick ugly, average looking men when they can pick someone who is better looking just a click away.
I think unless youre good looking, then dating websites is for you, but if youre not good looking then goodluck to you.
That goes for all dating in 2008... looks are the main thing cause few people plan to have an LTR anyway just some fun maybe and F then on to the next person...
 

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StevenR said:
15 to 1 ? where do you get this information? I agree it seems that way sometimes, but that doesn't make sense. Why would there be 15 single women for every single man? Do some guys keep harems or something, taking more than their share of the single women?
UMmm, see what happened there!? his mind did not want to accept the harsh reality so he reversed it my mistake!!...LOL

I SAID THERE ARE 15 MEN TO EVERY 1 WOMAN...!

So many men are lonely and desperate while many average women have attitudes and many many choices...
 

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UMmm, see what happened there!? his mind did not want to accept the harsh reality so he reversed it my mistake!!...LOL

I SAID THERE ARE 15 MEN TO EVERY 1 WOMAN...!

So many men are lonely and desperate while many average women have attitudes and many many choices...
This stat really holds true to where I live(DC);I even checked the census website and it says that there are in dc 18 women for every 1 guy. And if you add Maryland then it is 22 to 1. It depends on the area. And also to add; if you are a good conversationalist and act like your the prize; then you can stack up on online dating sites. DON'T BE TOO DESPERATE; ACT LIKE YOU DON'T CARE.
 

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JUAN the Great said:
This stat really holds true to where I live(DC);I even checked the census website and it says that there are in dc 18 women for every 1 guy. And if you add Maryland then it is 22 to 1. It depends on the area. And also to add; if you are a good conversationalist and act like your the prize; then you can stack up on online dating sites. DON'T BE TOO DESPERATE; ACT LIKE YOU DON'T CARE.
ok ok hold on , you guys realise that those govt stats are designed to avoid mass male depression right???????????????? IN THE DATING GAME MEN OUT NUMBER WOMEN BY AT LEAST 15 TO 1....

The govt loves to make it seem like there are more women to keep men working hard to make money to try and get women which in turn fuels the economy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I meant 15 guys to every gal, that was a typo or slip up on my part. It does seem that way, I just wonder where this guy got this information or if he is just pulling it up from somewhere. Logically it seems implausible since women don't die much in childbirth anymore and we haven't had any great plague that just kills women.
 
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