15 to 1 ? where do you get this information? I agree it seems that way sometimes, but that doesn't make sense. Why would there be 15 single women for every single man? Do some guys keep harems or something, taking more than their share of the single women?DonGorgon said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
For those who agonize over the difficulty of dating sites
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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That goes for all dating in 2008... looks are the main thing cause few people plan to have an LTR anyway just some fun maybe and F then on to the next person...yama600rr said:i think dating websites are really hard to pick up good looking women, even average looking women. i mean they have choices to pick from. why should they pick ugly, average looking men when they can pick someone who is better looking just a click away.
I think unless youre good looking, then dating websites is for you, but if youre not good looking then goodluck to you.
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UMmm, see what happened there!? his mind did not want to accept the harsh reality so he reversed it my mistake!!...LOLStevenR said:15 to 1 ? where do you get this information? I agree it seems that way sometimes, but that doesn't make sense. Why would there be 15 single women for every single man? Do some guys keep harems or something, taking more than their share of the single women?
I SAID THERE ARE 15 MEN TO EVERY 1 WOMAN...!
So many men are lonely and desperate while many average women have attitudes and many many choices...
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This stat really holds true to where I live(DC);I even checked the census website and it says that there are in dc 18 women for every 1 guy. And if you add Maryland then it is 22 to 1. It depends on the area. And also to add; if you are a good conversationalist and act like your the prize; then you can stack up on online dating sites. DON'T BE TOO DESPERATE; ACT LIKE YOU DON'T CARE.DonGorgon said:UMmm, see what happened there!? his mind did not want to accept the harsh reality so he reversed it my mistake!!...LOL
I SAID THERE ARE 15 MEN TO EVERY 1 WOMAN...!
So many men are lonely and desperate while many average women have attitudes and many many choices...
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ok ok hold on , you guys realise that those govt stats are designed to avoid mass male depression right???????????????? IN THE DATING GAME MEN OUT NUMBER WOMEN BY AT LEAST 15 TO 1....JUAN the Great said:This stat really holds true to where I live(DC);I even checked the census website and it says that there are in dc 18 women for every 1 guy. And if you add Maryland then it is 22 to 1. It depends on the area. And also to add; if you are a good conversationalist and act like your the prize; then you can stack up on online dating sites. DON'T BE TOO DESPERATE; ACT LIKE YOU DON'T CARE.
The govt loves to make it seem like there are more women to keep men working hard to make money to try and get women which in turn fuels the economy.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I meant 15 guys to every gal, that was a typo or slip up on my part. It does seem that way, I just wonder where this guy got this information or if he is just pulling it up from somewhere. Logically it seems implausible since women don't die much in childbirth anymore and we haven't had any great plague that just kills women.