"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For those of you who think online dating is a waste of effort...

Francisco d'Anconia

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... here's something that will make you feel justified in your opinions. Although this is from Craigslist which I don't feel depicts true online dating (same with MySpace), I think posts like these just make guys really bitter.

"I'll know it when I see it." - 37
* NOTE: It's her "P.S." that ticks off the guy that responds with this message:

Re: "I'll know it when I see it." - 37
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't get it, it doesn't seem too bad. So she's a little nerdy (what's Rubennesque?), and she's 37 years old. Everyone has a few flaws.

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Online dating is pointless. Using online as a supplement to meeting new girls for offline encounters is beneficial.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
I don't get it, it doesn't seem too bad. So she's a little nerdy (what's Rubennesque?), and she's 37 years old. Everyone has a few flaws.

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I can still get to the second post.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I can still get to the second post.
Doesn't work for me either.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
(what's Rubennesque?)
******** for fat.

Anyway as for her ad I dont really see anything out of the ordinary, seems just like your regular Western chick ad to me. She "thinks" she wants the supplicating guy who will bend over backwards for her and fullfill her overblown material wants, hell the b!tch even mentions wanting to be taken to "independantly owned"(expensive) restaurants in 2 seperate paragraphs. etc etc yada yada *Yawn*

Has nothing to do with us here does it?
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Online dating is pointless. Using online as a supplement to meeting new girls for offline encounters is beneficial.
I thought that was the whole point of online dating sites. Isn't it?

You post a profile, send a message to someone else who interests you, hopefully you "click," and then you meet in real life.

What else can you do with online dating?


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Originally posted by diablo
Doesn't work for me either.

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CRAP! It must be in my cache. It was just a pic of a REALLY rubenesque woman. I couldn't count the rolls of fat there was so many... Anyway, I guess you had to have been there....
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
It was just a pic of a REALLY rubenesque woman. I couldn't count the rolls of fat there was so many...
FRom my personal personals experience I can offer a simple tip on how to figure out her weight without a pic.
If her emails is oddly long from the very begining, much longer than yours, it is a sure sign she might be really overweight.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by al77
FRom my personal personals experience I can offer a simple tip on how to figure out her weight without a pic.
If her emails is oddly long from the very begining, much longer than yours, it is a sure sign she might be really overweight.
I realize it in their profile if they describe their hair/eye color and height without mentioning their weight or body type. Couple that with the fact that they won't post their picture and I see red flags and flashing red lights.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
I don't get it, it doesn't seem too bad. So she's a little nerdy (what's Rubennesque?), and she's 37 years old. Everyone has a few flaws.

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Rubennesque means she's fat.
 

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Online dating....

I've pulled hot chicks off the Internet.

The thing is you just have to move on if the chic doesn't play into your hand easily. Do not waste too much time on it. Go in, fire off a billion spams, and wait for replies. Filter the replies to only the ones that give up #s quick. Call but if you cant get a date, bail. Always see pics of her BODY before driving more than 15-20 min to meet a chic. Lie and say you live further away so you have an excuse to stay the night. You can always say you moved closer if things get serious.

It's not perfect, it's not a crutch for approaching women in person, but it can provide a few extra chics. Worst part is even in big cities, any given site will cease to provide much results after a while.
 

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Originally posted by Abbott
What else can you do with online dating?
Some people - such as a former roommate I had while living on campus - had "internet girlfriends" that they've never seen, probably never will see... and were happy with that. It's worse than pathetic.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Some people - such as a former roommate I had while living on campus - had "internet girlfriends" that they've never seen, probably never will see... and were happy with that. It's worse than pathetic.
Also known as pulling a Kip.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by diablo
Some people - such as a former roommate I had while living on campus - had "internet girlfriends" that they've never seen, probably never will see... and were happy with that. It's worse than pathetic.
It's guys like him that gives Internet Dating a bad name... :cuss:
 
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