Just talk to her as if you dont have any interest in her except as a friend, this will eliminate the nervousness you experience. No one ever gets nervous to talk to there guy friends so just imagine her as a friend ( untill you get comfortable) and you will be able to talk to her with ease.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
for those of you who get nervous to talk to girls.
- Thread starter hcaz074
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The TallOne
Don Juan
Let me take that one step further..
Talk to her as a punk kid sister...
Not only do you lose all your worries, but you add some C&F In also.
Talk to her as a punk kid sister...
Not only do you lose all your worries, but you add some C&F In also.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Youre like Christopher Columbus. You "found uncharted" territory...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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very true, im using it on a girl at school, but i think i have 2 much ****y and not enuf funny
The TallOne
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You'll get it.. sooner or later.
It helps if you're a natural smartass (as I was).
What has helped other people, is whenever you are unsure of a situation, write down 10 different comebacks. It puts your mind in the "witty" stage for responses.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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ya, really first time im actuallys starting to put all these principles to use, like c&f since school has been in school about a month and a half. last year, nvr wouldve even dreamed of doing something like this, course stuff from last year lead me to this site.
peronally, i think i am somewhat of a natural smartass, my friends seem to agree with me as well. on your little thing about the 10 comebacks, do you just kind of come up with them later and write them down, or do it while your in the situation?
peronally, i think i am somewhat of a natural smartass, my friends seem to agree with me as well. on your little thing about the 10 comebacks, do you just kind of come up with them later and write them down, or do it while your in the situation?
The TallOne
Don Juan
Hehe, later, of course.
Would be bad if you're writing down stuff in the middle of the convo.
You might make yourself look like an ass.. .because you are probably unsure of what to say during the convo.. as I have done in the past.
You learn from your mistakes. When you learn, you grow.
Flawless
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Sorry But If Your In High School And Cant Go Talk To A Girl Then You Really Need To Grow A Pair Of Balls..!!..Seriously..!!..Just Go Talk To The Girl..Thats The Only Way To Find Out ****..
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Beatflux
Don Juan
JUST CLICK FORWARD MUHAHAHAHAHA!!! www.neilslade.com
Osiris7250
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THANK YOU CAPTAIN OBVIOUS.....