Just talk to her as if you dont have any interest in her except as a friend, this will eliminate the nervousness you experience. No one ever gets nervous to talk to there guy friends so just imagine her as a friend ( untill you get comfortable) and you will be able to talk to her with ease.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
for those of you who get nervous to talk to girls.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The TallOne
Don Juan
Let me take that one step further..
Talk to her as a punk kid sister...
Not only do you lose all your worries, but you add some C&F In also.
Talk to her as a punk kid sister...
Not only do you lose all your worries, but you add some C&F In also.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Youre like Christopher Columbus. You "found uncharted" territory...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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very true, im using it on a girl at school, but i think i have 2 much ****y and not enuf funny
The TallOne
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You'll get it.. sooner or later.
It helps if you're a natural smartass (as I was).
What has helped other people, is whenever you are unsure of a situation, write down 10 different comebacks. It puts your mind in the "witty" stage for responses.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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ya, really first time im actuallys starting to put all these principles to use, like c&f since school has been in school about a month and a half. last year, nvr wouldve even dreamed of doing something like this, course stuff from last year lead me to this site.
peronally, i think i am somewhat of a natural smartass, my friends seem to agree with me as well. on your little thing about the 10 comebacks, do you just kind of come up with them later and write them down, or do it while your in the situation?
peronally, i think i am somewhat of a natural smartass, my friends seem to agree with me as well. on your little thing about the 10 comebacks, do you just kind of come up with them later and write them down, or do it while your in the situation?
The TallOne
Don Juan
Hehe, later, of course.
Would be bad if you're writing down stuff in the middle of the convo.
You might make yourself look like an ass.. .because you are probably unsure of what to say during the convo.. as I have done in the past.
You learn from your mistakes. When you learn, you grow.
Flawless
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Sorry But If Your In High School And Cant Go Talk To A Girl Then You Really Need To Grow A Pair Of Balls..!!..Seriously..!!..Just Go Talk To The Girl..Thats The Only Way To Find Out ****..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Beatflux
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JUST CLICK FORWARD MUHAHAHAHAHA!!! www.neilslade.com
Osiris7250
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THANK YOU CAPTAIN OBVIOUS.....