"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Down Low

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wait_out said:
Down Low, bud, one of my best friends will be spending this Xmas in the hospital, along with his wife, trying to cope with their young daughter just being diagnosed with a life-threatening medical condition. I never, ever, want to find myself in that position.

When you get down to it, yeah, that is pretty deep and life-changing sh!t.
A lot worse can happen to a man than to have a sick kid. Your personal anecdote, however much it might cause you to have an emotional reaction, is not relevant in my reasoning about the issue.

The whole line of thought is extremely immature. It's like a teenager is enraged that mature men get laid and he doesn't. So he wants the women for himself, while getting revenge. What could be more satisfying than to convince mature men to castrate themselves?

I suppose some faggot or orbiter or one of the more intellectual feminist cvnt-slores borrowed this nonsense from the "overpopulation" crowd to try to corrupt the minds of impressionable young men. Buying into this line of BS reveals a lot more about your level of maturity than about my reproductive health.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ThunderMaverick

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wait_out

Don't take the hate personal. It gets harder and harder for some to absorb common sense without a defense mechanism going off and blocking it.
 

zekko

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I think that it is the autism (or near autism, whatever it's called) in the parents (especially for men) that cause them to not be able to find a mate earlier in life - hence older parents are already self-selected to have a higher incidence of autism in their genes.
Just to be clear, my parents got married early in life, and had kids. So they weren't autistic. I was a late accident. But a happy one :)
 
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