"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For those of you who are hot heads especially if someone tries to AMOG you how do you handle this without it turning into a punch up?

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For those of you who are hot heads like me how do you handle being AMOG'd in a group setting be it at a group dinner with gf's/friends and 1 guy wants to show he is the big man or tries to test you making derogatory remarks or comments belittling you in a jokey manner to assert his authority and if you fire back it gets heated quickly how do you handle these types of situations?

Another scenario if you are seeing a girl at the beginning and there is a rival is who is trying to undermine you and using the fact you are a hot head to his advantage trying to get you to act out so you self implode how do you deal with these scenarios?

Do you just try to stay calm remove yourself from such situations if possible and revisit it later?

Im still reeling from earlier indiscretions with time wasting women it is affecting my interactions with any new ones as they can tell something is up and i am feeling jaded and bitter so even i can see i need to vacate until i have calmed down and in a better mood.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Dutchman is spot on. Do not be a hot head. Hot headed people are easily manipulated and controlled by others (and made to look foolish).

Self control is the mark of a mature individual. That is grown up 101.

Grown up 202 is amused mastery where you can actually find humor in the idiots around you.

You arent there yet. Work on Grown Up 101.
 
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