"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
For those of you still worried about age
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
legolas
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Yeah I saw that story too. Interesting match she's 23 he's 40 and did you look at his pic? The guy looks 23 
http://channels.netscape.com/sports/bigpic.jsp?photoid=20050529NY169
Look at those legs!!!! http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/multimedia/photo_gallery/2005/05/26/danica.patrick/content.8.html
http://channels.netscape.com/sports/bigpic.jsp?photoid=20050529NY169Look at those legs!!!! http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/multimedia/photo_gallery/2005/05/26/danica.patrick/content.8.html
JackPrescott
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Thats just wonderful. Just like Big George said "Over 40 aint over"....you can do it all, just need to hit the gym, and be prepared for anything.
A few years ago my dad told me the same thing. He said your 30's is the best time of your life. He didn't elaborate, but now that I am in my mid 30's I can say he was right on target.Originally posted by BGMan
One good thing about being a man is that we stay attractive longer. My old man (who married at 38) told me a couple of years ago, "Things will only get better."
BGMan
Why do you think women are so quick to try to handcuff you? Because their value in the mating game has a limited shelf life. If you are a guy you can be pimpin' well into old age if that's what you want to do. Look at Hugh....
Why would I care if I am getting older? I have a decent net worth, I basically don't have to work anymore, nice car, new townhouse a few blocks from the downtown nightlife, younger women saying I still look good, I know MY stock isn't going down anytime soon! It's GREAT to be a MATURE man.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I'm 25, and I got no beef with older guys hitting on younger girls. Just don't be the "i'm obvious trying to be hip, young and single" type. The middle aged recently divorced (usually AFC because their marriage didn't work) guys are the worst, it's like they religiously use every tip there is in Men's Health and Maxim. Don't do this...
Speedo I do agree there are some guys that do that, but I'm sure the bigger problem is their incongruency. They have no game so try to make it up by looking younger.
I'm 32 now, but when I was 25 like you, an older guy at work was already convincing me I was too old for college girls. Bad advice is abound.
I'm 32 now, but when I was 25 like you, an older guy at work was already convincing me I was too old for college girls. Bad advice is abound.
An older guy has alot to offer, but the key often is how good they look at whatever their age is. Compare a guy age 40 that spent his younger years on the beach, drinking, etc. who now has leather skin and a gut and probably medical issues too with one who didn't do that and kept in shape. Those are the guys that the 20 somethings are most interested in.